my sister and my\self got into a fight and she kicked me out for good or at least she said that it was for good. I am staying with my friend and her mom right now and I do not want to impose on their family any longer then I have to. I think that I want to call my sister and talk to her about the whole situation but I am not sure any advise would be helpful oh i am 17 years old if that makes any diffrence
2006-06-14 06:38:24 · 23 answers · asked by BB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
girl i know that u are ready to kill her (Figurative speaking that is) but until you get a spot of your own you need to suck it up and work on moving out. talk to her and lay down some ground rules for the both of you to follow. respect her and she will respect you. but don't ever let anyone run over you family or not.
p.s i hope that you are not doing something that is getting you kicked out (drugs,sex,etc)
2006-06-14 06:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by AC 3 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Your lucky to have a sister that cares enough about you to let you live with her. People say things when they are upset like "out for good", she didn't mean it but in the heat of the argument that's what came out. You seem smart enough to know that you should give her a call and apologize, why even question it. Just don't smart mouth like 17 year olds do, and I'm sure it be a cinch.
2006-06-14 06:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by harborgirl2006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know a 17 year old girl that was kicked out of her house last month. She skipped school to go have sex with her boyfriend, was sassy to her mother and broke every house rule, and treated her younger sister like crap. She was just plan hateful to everybody except her boyfriend.
If you were acting anything like her, then you deserved to be kicked out also. If you really want to come back, then you need to change your ways. Start by NOT hating your family and blaming them for your mistakes.
2006-06-14 06:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by my_alias_id 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to call your sister and ask to talk see if she will sit down with you and work out your problems. And if its her house and since your 17 your probably gonna have to follow her rules till you can get your own place, help her out with house hold chores and things like that. Dont be a freeloader even though its your sister.
2006-06-14 06:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you living with you sister? I'm not sure why you're not living with your parents. Were you abiding by you sister's house rules? Is your sister married---were you obeying the rules and boundaries he set for his household?
Too much of this story is not told. If you are 17 and staying with a friend, someone needs to contact Social Services.
2006-06-14 06:42:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah age does since you could move out if you were old enough but you arent quite there i dont think. and no matter how much you feud your family is still your family. you need to give her enough time to cool off depending what you did to get in a fight it may take alittle longer. then try to work things out take a friend or another family member if you want a mediator family member that your sister respects would work better and try to work it out.
"you can choose your friends but you cant choose your family"
2006-06-14 06:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by tn_wolf_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family is a love/hate relationship. if this is the first time and the reason 4 her kicking you out is forgivable then call her back. but if not, u r probably grown enough to get your own place then that way u don't need to depend on others there is just urself to depend on. good luck
2006-06-14 06:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by browneyedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doenst really make a difference. The fight does. Depending who was the wrong one and what happened. But try to work it out, you always need a sister, and about your place, get up and get to work. Now and days one needs to learn to be independent.
2006-06-14 06:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by Sillyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi im from england. family is the most important thing in the world. its who you are, where you belong. you also have to remember that once you're family is gone, there's nobody to look up to. nobody for help, advice and just being there for you. so what i would do, is say that you're sorry for what you did and put ur past behind you and make a fresh start. i hope i helped, truly. Good Luck!
2006-06-14 06:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by Emad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straighten every thing out with your sister, you may need her one day trust me!Apoligize to her and you will feel a whole lot better.I understand that you think you hate her,but trust me.You don't!!!
I know yhat deep down in your heart you love your sister to death.Call her up and say your sorry and clear the whole situation up.
P.S:GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-06-14 06:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See this is the thing, if you know you are living with somebody who would or could kick you out, you dont have a fight with them. Go and talk to her and tell her that you wouldnt do it again.
2006-06-14 06:40:48 · answer #11 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋