My best friend is a girl, is that bad? She has a fiancé and so do I; we tell each other everything in our lives. We act as if were bother and sister and we see each other in that way and nothing else. We also work together. Everyone tells me it’s bad because you will be tempted to cheat....
2006-06-14 06:32:35 · 28 answers · asked by Thumper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no it's prefectly normal and healthy to have a female as a best friend. i do not know where the tempt of cheating comes from from your friends, but as long as you and your female friend know that you two are nothing but have a very strict friendship then thats all that matters. i have 2 male best friends, who both had a crush on me during high school and college, but i always saw them as my best friends and nothing more. i first wouldn't get into a relationship with them because if i did, it will ruin my forever great friendship with them. as long as you know that you do not have feeling like that for her, then its okay. having a best female friend can help you and give you advice on other women or just give advice on anything that will help you later in the future. nobody said you can't be best friends with a female friend, did they?
2006-06-14 06:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No not at all me and women can be best friends. I had a male friend when i was a teenage that was my bestfriend and we could sleep in the same bed and never touch each other because we just didnt feel that way about each other we were like brother and sister nothing more. Ignore everyone else. Theres nothing wrong with your friendship
2006-06-14 13:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No a girl can be your Bestfriend. As long as you maintain that friendship and dont think about anything else then you are fine. Besides you both are getting married. If it was the case that you two liked each other then you two would be together. Everyone in this world just like to start drama. But as long as your happy and everything is great then let it be.
2006-06-14 13:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how this gurl looks. If shes fine as hell then chances are you might get a little tempted to touch, if you know what im sayin. You know you could be drinkin and havin fun together one night, and she all of sudden gets naked or starts rubbing on you. Its good and bad, but you cant end a friendship just because shes a gurl.
2006-06-14 13:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by PANTHA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its good for a man to have a woman best friend. Gives you some insight as to how we think. If you or her have no ideas about dating each other and keep it on a friend level you should be alright. Dont listen to what everyone else says, then that might put the ideas in your head.
2006-06-14 13:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by younggb77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not bad. All my life all my true bestfreinds have been boys except one. I get along with the opposite sex better and sometimes something comes up but we joke andmoveon knowing nothing will ever happen. If she is a good freind to you don't listen to what people say just continue to appreciate the friend that she is.
2006-06-14 13:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by kiki_t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's perfectly ok. Just because you are of the opposite sex, does not mean you will be tempted to cheat. I have a couple of guy friends who are closer to me than most of my female friends and I've never been tempted to sleep with them.
2006-06-14 13:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by wild_crazy1981 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl and a guy cannot be best friends. Beacuse no matter how close you are...you will always know that she is not your sister (vice versa) therefore if stormy lonely night occurs and you are having trouble in your relationship...she will be there "comfort" you in the way a sister cannot. If that happens...you guys can never be friends again...
2006-06-14 13:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by Stress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to them. If you're tempted to cheat, or your fiance' becomes jealous, THEN it's bad. If not, don't dump a good friend over nothing. Stay friends if/until things get bad.
2006-06-14 13:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by the_novelist05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not true i have a best friend and hes married and im engaged.. we both have kids and tell each other everything as well its all in u guys hands whether or not u guys will betray your loved ones but yess u can have have a best friend of an oppisite sexx good luck
2006-06-14 13:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by Diana K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋