A little jealousy is good?

Question

The other day I was composing a email to one of my 360 buddies who happens to be female and my wife walked up and was giving me the 3rd degree about it and suddenly she is very attentive, has anyone else had something similar happen?

anthrogirl26, thanks for the imput but 360 is a blog page, not the number of friends, I wish I had that many people I could call friends, the actuel number is more like 13-14.

Answer 1

I told you she would find out about us sooner or later! I am crushed, I told myself I would never do such a thing with a married man. Then look at what I have gone and done?????? Oh my.

Seriously now,
I say run with it, just don't over use it if you know what I mean. Just watch out for WHEN you find her doing the same. :)

Answer 2

As long as you are honest and open about any relationships you develop, whether with male or female, she should be fine.
She just wants to be included and know what is going in your life.
That doesn't mean that every aspect of your life should be an open book.
We all need to respect and give the other partner some privacy.
A person who can do that is very lucky. A little jealousy should not be a problem. Sort of charming in a way. You know they really care. (so you are her property.....so what...lol)

When jealousy goes to another level, then it would be a real problem and other issues are probably at stake.

Answer 3

I am not even married and I am in the same situation. My fiance is, in my opinion, very jealous. I recently helped a female friend of mine get a job at the company I work for. We would not even be working at the same location however she swears that nothing good can come from it. I understand that jealousy is a natural feeling but you have to draw the line somewhere. I don't get jealous about her guy friends because I trust her not to do anything stupid. I hope this helps.

Answer 4

Jealousy has its place in certain relationships. Wife may have been threatened by the thought of you communicating with anyone of the opposite sex. Its possible she had a quick heart to heart with self and said, "Maybe I need to step my game. because my husband has lost interest." Lastly, get off the PC more often, not saying you're a PC junky... fiddle with your wifes keys instead of the keyboards. I bet you, you'll enjoy the download a heck of a lot more......

Answer 5

360? That's a lot dude. Your wife has good reason to be a little annoyed, you're probably neglecting her by keeping in contact with all your "buddies."

Answer 6

As long as you are not trying to go to someone other then your wife for things you should be getting from your wife then you should not worry bout having friends and you wife should not be Jealous. I think motives can change quickly though.

Answer 7

unusual enough, in my few yrs of being married, this hasn't been the case for me. he hasnt shown any signs of jealousy to be attentive, (sth I always wonder about and dont know what to say.)
Your wife sounds like she really cares and needs some love and attention.

Answer 8

a little yes.. a lot .. no
I mean I am always talking to guy friends online but me and my hubby trust each other completly and know that we wont stray!! We also make sure we have time that is just for us...

Answer 9

LOOK you know where your heart is ---BY now so should your wife, unless you did something, to make her think other wise.------------ YEs it has happened but, g0d knows my heart ,and it worked out alright in the end. IT WILL ALL work out in the end. TRUST ME star

Answer 10

yeah... my girlfriend has no idea that I do this. Then again I'm at work and she hooked me up with this job and if she found out i wasted the entire day doing this i'd be up a creek.