2006-06-14 06:09:52 · 14 answers · asked by Jill B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We have a child together. I did not know he was married when we started seeing each other... He was hiding that fact. Now every time he comes to see his baby.. I fall from him all over again.... It's not that I have not tried to stop loving him... I just can't!
2006-06-14 06:24:01 · update #1
You don't you home wrecker
2006-06-14 06:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by my_alias_id 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok, you made a mistake, you had a child from a married man, you are not the first one nor the last one. You still have time to do things right, forget about the idea of being with him, let him see the baby on a monthly basis and have him support the baby, but limit your contact with him. Give yourself some importance and start seeing other people.
Let him realize on his own who he wants to be with, maybe he doesn't love his wife anymore and wants to be with you, but he wont leave her if you keep accepting the role of the "lover". Put a stop to it, and think about your child.
2006-06-14 13:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by cuteboymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called paying attention.If the man does not stay with you and you do not go to his house then he has someone.And you knew this and went alone with it.How can you say the too of you were together for a year?He was with his wife and you were just his toy and sounds like you are still letting him use you.He will never leave his wife,why should he?He has the best of both worlds,a wife at home and one on the side.So you sit there and wait for something that will never happen.
2006-06-14 13:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by junior1108 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that ship has sailed.
I dont want it to sound like, I told you so, but you should have known more aboout him before you decided to have a child with him.
While you may have a special bond with the father you need to find out from him what his long term intentions are. If he is not willing to leave her to be with you, then you need to stop holding out for him. When you do decide to move on, make it clear to him that you are going to find someone else to be with.
The father will never be out of your life since you have a child together.
Your future partners will need to accept the fact that the father will always be in your life on a limited basis because of the child.
2006-06-14 13:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by creskin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't you stupid *****. Stop trying to break up a marriage, and go find a man of your own!
Besides, what makes you think that just because he leaves his wife for an ignorant sl*t like you, that he won't do the same thing to you in a few years?
Get a grip, get a life, buy a brain on eBay and stop asking stupid pointless selfish questions.
2006-06-14 13:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's females like you that allows a man to keep being a whore and u should be ashamed of yourself now what if someone wanted to mess up your relationship i no u would have something to say to her sometimes we cant always put the blame on a man by calling him a dog or whore because of all the sluts and tramps that keep allowing it to go on. but here's some advice for u leave her dude alone and find your own for u end u getting your *** whooped just a lil side note
2006-06-14 13:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by glamorous 1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dint think he is going to ever leave his wife for you. He may say he is but in reality he isn't because he would have already if he really wanted you. He wants his wife and wants you too. The best thing you could do is leave him and move on.
2006-06-14 13:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want someone who is a cheater and a liar? I can tell you he is a liar because I really doubt his wife really knows whats going on. Besides, if he really cared about you and not what you do for his ego, he would have left her loooong ago. Remember the saying "If they do it with you, they will do it to you".
2006-06-14 13:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by cricket 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a life of your own and leave this man alone. If he hasnt left her already hes not going to.
I hate women who try and break up marriages.
2006-06-14 13:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would he leave his wife? He is eating his cake and still having it>
2006-06-14 16:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious asking this question here, don't you read other peoples questions and answers, everyone hates a homewrecker.
2006-06-14 13:17:49 · answer #11 · answered by auzzimama 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋