with me if u get what i mean should i
2006-06-14 06:02:34 · 8 answers · asked by Yoshi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
should we b like a lovers and friends
2006-06-14 06:27:58 · update #1
its hard cuz i tried to one day and he said he didn't want to, and one day he said wendy i love u don't ever leave me
2006-06-14 06:29:32 · update #2
You have to tell him how you really feel otherwise you'll hurt him in the long run. tell him simply that you dont feel the same way he does and that you want to give it more time before you "commit" to him. Love hurts and not soemthing you should play around with. If you know you dont love him the way he loves you, tell him and dont lead him into thinking you do. You'll be the one who'll end up getting hurt.
2006-06-14 06:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by shawny2623 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
If you don't love him then don't make any more of a committment. It is better to end it now or tell him that you aren't ready to make it deeper. He will wait if he truly loves you. You may change how you feel, depends on how long you have been with him. If you decide you love him down the road then go for it. If you don't, then you will have no regrets.
Don't do something that you dont want to especially to satisfy someone elses needs. Think of yourself first.
2006-06-14 13:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him how you really feel. Why would you continue to hurt him as well as yourself? Why are you holding yourself back from having a truly meaningful relationship? If you like talking to him so much, maybe you two should just be friends.
2006-06-14 13:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by corinne n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying with someone you don't love is not a very kind thing to do. Being honest is a better choice--being honest with yourself and with your boyfriend. If you have to hurt someone (ie by breaking up with them) better to do it sooner than after the person has wasted a lot of time and energy on you.
2006-06-14 13:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to let him know how you truly feel becuase that sounds really terrible on your part. Love needs to be reciprocated. There is no point of you having a boyfriend and you're not loving him back.
2006-06-14 13:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not lead him on and be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Do not live a lie here and be honest. Ask him to just be friends and to slow it down for now.
2006-06-14 13:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have deep feelings for him, DO NOT get into a "deeper" relationship with him. Wait!
2006-06-14 13:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by tabbiecat98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him how you feel
2006-06-14 13:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋