2006-06-14 05:59:07 · 12 answers · asked by curiousguy4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A woman maybe shouldn't have married a man if she knew he was shy and had a hard time opening up to her. I don't think she should divorce him, work on it. Don't give up on marriage too soon, you might end up regretting it. Maybe you're too agressive for him and you should ease up a bit.
2006-06-14 06:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by sgrjackson1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be silly. A good man is very hard to find. If the only problem is that he's shy and has a hard time opening up, you've got a better marraige than 99.99% of the population. It's not like he's a cheating wife beater or an alcoholic or a compulsive liar... get counseling if you think there's more to it than just shyness, but divorce should be closer to a "last choice option."
2006-06-14 06:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all.... She needs to find help and counseling to love him where he is at and try to help him open up at times. You may also need marriage counseling too but this is no reason for a divorce. You need to love him where he is at and be the wife you need to be for him. Treat him the way you want to be treated and if the shoe were on the other foot and you were the one that had a hard time opening up would you want him to divorce and leave you over something as insignificant like this. It is not like he is purposely hurting you and your marriage. Divorce is not even an option in this case!
2006-06-14 06:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, thats not reason for divorce. there are people with more issues than that. this woman needs to be open to seeking counseling to save the marriage. he needs counseling to learn to open up to his own wife. they could have a beautiful marriage if they just TRY
2006-06-14 06:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! only divorce if the maTE is harrasing or hurting..the man/woman is not opening up based on his experiance in the past for him not to tell u how he feels is probaBly how he was taught or how he thinks he should act....IT CANT HURT TO CONFRONT HIM..!!..
2006-06-14 06:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...get counseling or they will become just another statistics because they are two different people. Now if after counseling nothing changes...well that will have to be up to the individuals.
2006-06-14 06:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by mtv8r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, most men in general have a hard time opening up to women. get some counseling, and remember men are not women, we open up easily to our closest friends and sometimes to strangers, but men are not wired that way.
2006-06-14 09:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by angelgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the circumstances are that bad then she should have never married him to begin with. I think counseling is always a good option, too.
2006-06-14 06:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the poor guy a break, he is shy, ask him to talk to you, give him the benefit of the doubt.
2006-06-14 06:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooooh please!! why even marry if you have such a low commitment level. why not divorce because they are wearing kelly green instead of forest green, or maybe because they drive an old beater car instead of a new mecedes. how shallow, anything can be worked through.
2006-06-14 06:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by midnightrose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋