2006-06-14 05:45:37 · 36 answers · asked by Country Chick87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You fell for that line? Wake up.
2006-06-14 05:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by StereoZ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you shouldn't feel guilty you would not ask the question.
Why is it on your mind at all if you think it is okay? Here is my question? He is a man right? So why does he not tell the friend he wants to be with you and no longer wants to be with her? Better question? Why did you not go to your friend as a women and tell her that you have interest in her man as oppose to sneaking behind her back. The truth is this person is not your friend and you are not her friend. You are best to severe the relationship with her if sleeping with this man is most important to you. But how can lust make anyone chose it over friendship?
2006-06-14 05:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by emanuel2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi;
I really think that you should feel guilty or maybe worse...
Because i have a boyfriend (FIANCE)that i love a lot and i also have a best friend that has always been there for me when not even my family has been there ;and just thinking about her been with him will kill me. I don't know exactly what type of friendship you guys have but i thinking that's one of the worse things that a friend can do to me.(And remember guys always want to try something new and that's why they say ( " OH NO I DON'T WANT TO BE WITH HER SHE IS THE ONE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR ME" / BECAUSE IF IT WAS LIKE THAT, THEN WHY HE STILLS WITH HER"
Don't make a mistake a D*** is not worthy as a friend can be!!!
2006-06-14 07:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jessy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that even though he doesn't want to be with her anymore you shouldn't have slept with him. If this girl is supposed to be your friend then you really do not have much regards for her feelings. However, I do think that you should have waited until they were not together anymore to sleep with him, because then your friend would know. And in all honesty I think you friends man would tell you anything to get you to sleep with him. Be careful. I'm not trying to pass judgement on you I just think that you should have a little more common courtesy towards your friends feelings.
2006-06-14 05:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by Smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're asking if you should feel guilty, my guess is you already do. I think it was a bad idea to sleep with your friend's boyfriend while they were still together. I'm sure if your friend did the same with your boyfriend, you'd feel betrayed. Is he going to break up with your friend for you, because if that's the case then you really shouldn't go out with him, if you care about her as a friend at all. You just need to put yourself in her shoes and think about what you feel is right. If you feel guilty, then you know you did something wrong, and should fix it fast before it gets out of control. Good luck.
2006-06-14 05:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he tell you these things:
I really wanted you but i thought you were unavailable.
If i could i would be with you.
You are so much better than her
I only stay with her to be close to you..
Well he's running game and he does care about her and he uses you, so yes you should feel guilty, however you should also be hurt that he would even think to have a sexual relationship with you behind your friend's back.
2006-06-14 05:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by Chocolate Beauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can call yourself a friend! The way normal people tend to view life, once some one has dated a friend - they are off limits. This means even after they have broken up. All you have done is lose a friend (which will happen). Think about it this way, are you ever going to be able to trust a man who cheated on his ex with you? Do you think he will treat you any different. Way to Go!
2006-06-14 05:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by tabbiecat98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, yes. R u a friend at all? Would you be mad at your friend if she slept w/ ur man? Regardless if he doesn't want her, no man should come between u & a TRUE friend. No matter how much he doesn't want her or how good the sex was. Absoluty yes, feel as guilty as possible.
2006-06-14 05:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by Raya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about guilt...it's about what you've done to your friend. If the shoe was on the other foot, how would you feel?
He's not being honest with her about their relationship and now he's had sex with her friend (you). ((What kind of man does that make him))?
If he does it (cheat and lie) to her, he could easily do it to you. Be very careful with your feelings and this guy...he may just break your heart, too.
The best predictor for future behavior is past behavior...
2006-06-14 06:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by Salvation is a gift, Eph 2:8-9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel guilty cause friends are for life, unless your friend has done the samething to you and then all is fair in war and sex. Plus he should be the one to feel bad, make his *** tell its over
2006-06-14 05:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by blanco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should because you deliberatly abused her trust even if he doesn't want to be with her. You're the other woman, and that is gonna crush her. Even if he is the worse one. I'm sorry to be harsh but don't put a question you don't want the truth to. I'm not judging you, we all make our own choices.
2006-06-14 05:48:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋