Being bisexual isn't a choice. Either you're born with an attraction for both sexes or you aren't. I was in my early teens (twelve, maybe) before realizing that some people only preferred one sex, mostly the opposite from their own. It just blew my mind that people didn't sometimes have an interest in the same and sometimes the opposite. I remember my friends trying to explain it to me. So weird.
2006-06-14 07:02:56
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answered by Anonymous
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I certainly don't think all women have considered "being bisexual."
But, I'm sure there are many women who have asked themselves if they were.
It took me a very long time to figure out that I was bisexual, because I grew up hearing that I should be in a relationship with a guy, and I DID like guys. So I didn't see a conflict. But, over time, as I figured out who I was, some things became clear to me. And this wasn't sudden- no flash of lightning revelation, but there were many little signs, from my whole life, that at last made me think: oh, this makes sense now.
How does it feel? Well, pretty normal, to me. I am equally attracted to men and women, though not every bisexual person is. I find the idea of sex with either gender equally apealing, and I am very happy with my sexuality right now. And no, just because I like both genders does not mean I want to sleep with anything that moves. I find it's the same feelings I get with men, but not always in the same ways. It varies, sometimes, but that is no different than how the feelings of attraction you have vary from person to person. I notice both on the street, I have had crushes on both.
The main thing, I think, is for someone to take their time, and consider what really feels true for them. It's not uncommon for heterosexual people to be turned on by something related to the same sex, and yet still be totally straight. Some people spend alot of time in confusion before coming to terms with the fact that they are homosexual. I, personally, am very settled in my bisexuality. And in truth, there has been evidence to suggest that there are alot more bisexuals out there than most people think. So, while I think many people have thought about it, the best thing is to just take it easy and see what seems the most honest and normal, for each person.
2006-06-14 12:56:44
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answered by ixtilmelopmene 2
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Though the female body is wonderfully beautiful in all shapes and sizes and I love to look at women's breasts comparing and what not, I have to say that the thought of being sexual with another woman doesn't turn me on in any way at all. I think it's perfectly normal to think another woman is attractive and say she has a nice body or whatever you think of her but it doesn't necessarily mean you are turned on sexually.
2006-06-14 12:44:53
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answered by mother_flower 3
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ok heres my problem i know im into girls but i know if i go for it my bf will want to be a part of it and i cant deal with that also i cant seem to find any girls in topeka to try this with who i can trust to keep it between us
2006-06-14 13:02:46
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answered by kiatri 1
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