i was adopted from russia @ age 6/7, well a year later they adopted vera my 1 yr older sis. well see i had both of them, then she came and took mom, but i didnt mind i had dad. then when in 13/14, he starts something with a co-worker, or my mom just got to his head, and had me along. but anyways during a fight he said he would go be the boys father, well bang i was shot in the back, so really i never from then on was close to my family, we also got anoghter little sister then, soo that really put stress on. now my family gets mad when i never want to do anything with them WELL DO YOU BLAME ME???
2006-06-14 05:33:55 · 24 answers · asked by gothicangelalways 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no i don't blame you they hurt you and you did what you thought waas best
2006-06-14 05:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by ashley s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know, from being adopted myself, that no matter how loved you are, you always feel a little insecure... so I'm guessing you feel this too... and then add some words that were probably said in the heat of the moment and I can understand how you feel....
but you need to tell your family how you feel... and don't hold anything back if you really want to resolve this.
Good luck!
Aloha!
2006-06-14 05:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you at all. You poor thing.
Try to get a job, save up money and then get the heck out of there when you turn 18. They sound like a total nightmare.
Good Luck!
2006-06-14 05:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Struck a twine right here.My previous guy have been given the finished works at present for asserting the incorrect element.He did no longer know it become the incorrect element(bless) yet then adult adult males by no potential do.Makes it extra relaxing for us ladeeees.Fanx for the laff.
2016-12-13 16:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by biedrzycki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i understand is yes i can blame you because you have family that cares about you just think some where in the world little kids don't have anyone in there life. so be happy that you do.
2006-06-14 05:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by sweet heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JEEZ man! I would have liked to be adopted instead of being beat by my own mother.
Grow up and be happy you have people that love you and want to spend time with you. Doesn't sound as if you deserve them.
2006-06-14 05:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by Marlene 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you at all.... That was sort of hard to follow but I think I got the basic idea.... But really, who could blame you? You've had it tough. Keep fighting. ;)
2006-06-14 05:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't get to pick our families...Mine is very dysfunctional... but we love each other and stick together even when we disagree. Because we are human we are a very selfish species
2006-06-14 05:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by Brat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write in Russia if You can
2006-06-15 16:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
n0o but that is your family and you have to try to get along with them i mean if you have so much hate then its going to seem worst than it is just try to get along with them and hey you might like it
2006-06-14 05:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by baoverstreet84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
English Class would help your horrible use of our language
2006-06-14 05:37:03 · answer #11 · answered by ricgrif 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋