off, if she dosent want to have sex then just leave me alone and let me do my own thing right, even thought thats watching x rated movies?
2006-06-14 05:33:39 · 20 answers · asked by atienzaelijah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im not a lousy lover its that shes just very prude, we have realy good all day long all over the place sex maybe once in a blue moon and i do try to turn her on and she just laughs
2006-06-14 05:40:48 · update #1
okay theres a difference of wanting sex everyday because your a horn bastard and wanting sex everyday when your wife is fine as hell but again only has sex with you once in a blue moon
2006-06-14 05:44:26 · update #2
The porn may be the reason she doesn't want to have sex. She may feel like she can't compare to the women you watch. She may be thinking that she doesn't have your total love. Porn can destroy many relationships and it sounds as if it's destroying yours. You need to decide what is more important to you: your wife or porn. You and your wife may need to go to counseling and work through this. Good luck to you.
2006-06-14 05:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by jacquelinebrns 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think theres nothing wrong with watching x rated films I use to do it with my first husband cuz he would say no to me and I was in the mood so I would go watch pornos. I kept that pretty private but I have the same situtation with my new husband of 2 months he only seems to want sex when he wants it so I find time alone and take care of my needs. I don't know why anyone would not want to have sex I totally enjoy it everyday if I could good luck maybe explaining to her you rather be with her if she might bend at times for your needs and take care of you. I feel sometimes you plz the other person because you care and love them. Maybe I just plz him to much! Take care and remember always communcate with each other.
2006-06-14 12:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by wildrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with that? At least you're not looking for action with someone else! Your wife needs to be more understanding or give you a bit more action as sex plays a large part in a relationship.
2006-06-14 12:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my husband left me in favor of movies (whichever) I would feel mortaly insulted! A wife is not just a female body to hump - you have to respect her for who she is, listen to her, ask her opinions, have conversation with her. talking to her and having a conversation - from the mundane to the imperative, will give her the message that you love her come what may. this will help build your relationship and you can then discuss your sexual relationship. it will come slowly, but she may be willing to backtrack, put her feelings of sex out of the way, and begin anew. BUT she will only be prepared to do this if you care for her, and show it! Did you know that 85% of women want to chat after sex and more than 83% of them feel affronted if the partner did join in the conversation?
2006-06-14 12:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by Leah S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better than cheating just keep jacking off but it may seem like you like doing that more than pleasing your wife. maybe ur wife needs something else in the bed like try something new to get her to lyke it and want it just as much as you do. and also try not to do it around her at least and also try talking to her a lot about your needs and how u keep satisfied in a relationship without cheating !!!! And also listen to her reasons and try to understand but you need to come to a compromise before you end up divorcing.
2006-06-14 13:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because she wants you to turn her on. You are probably a lousy lover. I mean if you go to a restaurant and never get the service you like, and the food isn't good, would you even want to go out to dinner? But it doesn't mean your not hungry.
2006-06-14 12:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what it is. I think women are sick and f*cking tired of men acting like they cant control themselves. Are you going to die if you dont have sex one day ?? Because she doesn't feel like having sex you have to throw yourself into an x-rated movie ?? That would totally turn me off.
2006-06-14 12:40:56 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously not doing anything to get your wife interested in having sex with you. If all you do is watch porn by yourself, there's the problem...invite her to watch it with you BEFORE you ask her to have sex with you. Also, how are you asking her? If you're standing naked in the doorway shaking your thing, and saying let's do it...that's also a problem...I have one word for you: FOREPLAY.
2006-06-14 12:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by occasionallyrowdy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say you should pay more attention to your wife and think about her needs and feelings too, not just your own. watching those movies makes her feel like shes not good enough. resist your urges to watch sex and relieve yourself. hold out for her and it will be more fun, more specail, and she wont nag you.
2006-06-14 12:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by shaggydude24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a wonderful marriage.
2006-06-14 12:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋