How often do you have sex with your spouse?? Do you think it has changed since you got married?? And how long have you been married?? I'm just trying to see if I'm over reacting to only have sex like everyother day...But we have only been married going on 2 years on July 13...
2006-06-14 05:30:16 · 45 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been married for 4 years and the sex has changed. Used to have sex 2-3 times a week, now I m lucky if I get it 2 or 3 times a month. I m a guy, need some more than that.
2006-06-15 03:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by Shocker3:16 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
twice a week, It has definitely changed because you know longer r boyfriend and girlfriend but a married couple with allot of responsibilities, when u were just dating or in the beginning of your relationship everything was about discovery but then the bill come in waking up every morning dealing with the same people All day getting home to rest is more of a pleasure than sex sometimes.Ive been married 7 1/2 years. every other day is perfect wait till you hit 5 years then every twice a week and sometimes 2 a month but it is natural and there are many ways to spice things up but you'll see the more you age less it becomes one way to prevent it from happen to soon is 4 both of u to excises and eat healthy you will notice a big difference especially in him. The more cholesterol and high blood pressure he has the less he will last in the sack there fore becoming a boring sex life. hope the helps and good luck in your marriage.
2006-06-14 05:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 5 years. The frequency has changed. At first it was like 3 times a day. Then when I got preganant we couldn't do it at all cause of complications. After the baby we did it like 1 or 2X a week. Then we had some rough patch in our marriage and it like 1X a week. Now we do it almost everyday. So don't worry, just have sex when you both want to. There is no set number.
2006-06-14 05:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not over reacting. I know how you feel about the situation. Ive only been married for 10 mos and im lucky to get it once a week. Yes it has changed from before the marriage. Before we got married it was every night but now he says hes to old for sex now.
2006-06-14 06:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for one year and our sex life hasn't really changed much. we have sex about 2-3 times a week, depending on how we feel, how tired we are.....we also have a 1 yr old daughter. Every marriage is different and there are many variables that may affect how often you have sex. Every other day is more than enough for most couples. Most are lucky to get it once a week. Is he bothered with this as well? talk about it with him
2006-06-14 05:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by jenniferb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have sex about 5-7 times a week. It has changed since we go married, becasue we did not live together, so actually we have more sex now. We have been married 9 months. This is a second marriage for both of us.
2006-06-14 05:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we've been married for almost two years and my husband and I had sex for the last time May of 2004. He became inpotent and can not have sex anymore. I miss it so much. You are so lucky to be able to have that with your husband. Every other day is perfect. Some people on do it once a month or less. We used to do it every other day like you until......hmmm well good luck to you both
2006-06-14 05:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by tinker143 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two or three time a week( Sometimes more if he's lucky). When we first met we had sex everyday at least twice. I don't think being married has changed it. It has been having two boys in the house and all of the activities that we attend everyday, plus all of responsibilities, like work and keeping the house clean. But I really think it just depends on your own situation.
2006-06-14 05:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by luckymom43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been married for 6 1/2 yrs and Yes our sex life have changed,down from 4 times a wk to 1 or 2 times a wk if im lucky>But our Love is still there for each other and if we were still dating.Problems in our marriage,but we still are commited to each other
2006-06-14 06:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by otexasgina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems a common thread, married couples are not having sex very often. Once every couple on months! Most of us would love having sex everyother day.
2006-06-14 05:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by choppercam1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋