ok here is my question, I am sitting a my normal area where I eat lunch, this gurl comes up, sits down and starts talking to me, she says she met me a week earlier. I say ok, we talk a few minutes. she leaves all smiling, next day when she comes in to eat, she sits facing me but turns sideways in her chair facing away from me, she doesn't speak although our eyes meet on occasion. I am usually pretty good at this stuff but this is the 2nd time this has happened to me with 2 different females. wht point am I missing here. the other time it was at my apt pool. I talked like half an hour with her. good conversation, next day, she keeps her back to me, doesn't speak. she has spoken later on , why do women do this, what are they trying to tell me? it's not your standard hard to get.
2006-06-14 05:24:41 · 6 answers · asked by not _in_this_lifetime 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
they might just want u to say something to them...... u know they took a step in on talkin and now they wanna see if u'll take the next step
2006-06-14 05:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The thing with this is that they don't want to seem clingy to you. How does she know that you really want to talk to her the second day in a row? She wants you to approach her, show her some interest. She took the first step you take the next. That's all. If she doesn't respond, then you were right about her avioding you.
2006-06-14 12:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by Smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're meeting the wrong kind of girls. Just say a simple hi to them and go along with what you were doing. If they want to talk to you they will, if not, blow it off. Either they are shy and just got up the courage to make the first move and waiting for you to follow up, or just moody. Watch their behavior with others, it should tell you which kind of girl they are.
2006-06-14 12:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by never.say.never 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like they are saying here i am make a move. You know making themselves available. But not wanting to look too eager i suppose.
2006-06-14 12:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by tina2u275 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u meet the wrong girls cos i dont see the reason why they talk with u today and the next day they pretend like they dont know u, well ignore them.
2006-06-14 12:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by SeXyBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let them get to u their not the only people in the world
2006-06-14 12:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by swet2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋