how should i tell my mom that her bf is raping me and she wont beleive me, and i was preggy by him?

Question

she doesnt beleive me n she says i tease him, meaning she thinks i force him to have sex with me but i dont and she always belsives him over me and thats why she trust him so much and he just lies about me and all that to my mom

Answer 1

Tell the cops, that's just wrong in so many levels. She should believe you, you're her daughter.

Answer 2

Call 911 and file a report against him for rape!!! You already approached your mother and for her to blame you for "teasing" him shows that she is blind and not a fit parent and is choosing her boyfriend over you!!! (incredible) Whatever the reason is that she has not kicked his *** out of the house or called the cops herself, you should take this matter into your own hands and take care of your own future and well being!! Dont be afraid, there are many organizations available to help you if u have to leave the house! Call the cops, tell them about the sexual molestation and the fact that your mother is in denial and has chosen to look away and not believe you--- You have to report him and MOVE OUT!!!! The police will offer you the necessary help you and will put in a safe place- either another family member or a shelter!

Answer 3

tell somebody else besides this message board. Like somebody who can help.


What to do if you are raped

Seek medical attention as soon as possible. In the Philadelphia area, free medical treatment is provided to rape victims at Episcopal and Thomas Jefferson University Hospitals.

Do not shower, eat, or smoke. These actions can destroy evidence of the attack.

Report the crime. A victim is not required to report the incident, but it is highly recommended to prevent future attacks by the perpetrator.

Women Organized Against Rape is an organization, which provides a 24-hour hotline service [phone]. Our hotline is staffed with trained crisis counselors, that you can call any time.

Answer 4

Your mom is sick, perverted, and needs to be in jail. So does the creep that she has picked to live with. Go to a battered women's shelter (you can find them in the phone book) first, then call the cops from there. If the cops come to your house when the sicko creeps are there, they may not believe you over the creeps story. Get out now! And don't ever go back! Do you have any nice relatives that you can live with? Or Friends? You are more susceptible to abuse from others (the predators can see your vulnerabilities), so be careful. You deserve to be loved, but your mom is not going to be the one to give it to you. God loves you and cares about you. Lean on Him.

Answer 5

CALL Dr.Phil!!!!!!!! Also contact any authority and if you were pregnant by this man,get the proof from the doctors office.Nowdays some kids like to start trouble for their parents,esp.in broken homes and if you have always had an open relationship with your mom and always honest with her,then she should be seeing it and kicking that loser out the door.How old are you anyhow?Where's your dad? Tell mom you want you and she to go to a counselor..you both need help by the sounds! Good Luck!

Answer 6

Holy Cow. If you are making this up, shame on you for saying such things. If you are not, you need to go to an adult that you can talk to. So, you have already told your Mom and she is ignoring you? Will your grandparents help you? If not, I think that you need to go to someone who can point you in the right direction. Try Social Services first. Then, if it still dosen't stop, you need to contact the Police. This is alot for someone who is a minor to do on your own, and I feel especially sorry for you since your Mom, the one that is supposed to protect you is handing you over to the wolves. Feel free to email me if you need more help. Good luck and God bless you.

Answer 7

Go to someone else. Once the authorities get involved she will have to pay attention. Also know that it's not your fault. Even if you were flirting with him, which I believe you when you say you are not, that does not give him any rights to your body. Do not let him do this to you anymore. Hurt him if you have to in order to get away. You won't get in trouble for defending yourself and if your mom won't help you find someone who will. A teacher, neigbor, grandparent, a friend's parent, the police, anyone.

Answer 8

What you need to do is speak to a counselor. Speak to another adult that you trust. Its normal for mothers not to believe their daughters being raped by their boyfriends unfortunately but you should take action. If not, he'll keep doing it. You are not the blame for what's going on so do not blame yourself! He's just a sore loser and a pervert! You need to speak to another adult or a counselor! Call the POLICE 911 and explain to them what's happening. Be very truthful and tell them what's happening. If you are worried because your mom's boyfriend might get arrested; DON"T BE WORRIED! Your life is important to you and you can keep yourself from being continuedly harmed. Your mom is just in denial right now and later she'll get to her senses but for now you need to call the police 911 and report him! Do it because you love yourself and you are worth a whole lot more! He has no right in using you and raping you and you need to report him! But DO NOT TELL YOUR MOM'S BOYFRIEND THAT YOU'RE GONNA REPORT HIM OR HE'LL MAKE SCARY THREATS TO KEEP YOU FROM GETTING HELP. JUST CALL 911 IMMEDIATELY WITHOUT TELLING NO ONE! OR TELL A COUNSELOR! GOOD LUCK AND I'LL PRAY FOR YOU.

Answer 9

is there anyone else you can talk to your minister, counsellor at school?? find someone else & tell them fast
he has no right... I don;t know how old you are but if you have to get the police involved then do it as your mother who shud beleive you is not ..then take matters into your own hands
where is your father can you go to him ??
do not be afraid other wise things will not get better for you

good luck to you

Answer 10

i been through that before. dont you feel like sometimes he has mind control over her.i live in the same house as my moms boyfriend and i just dont talk to him. whenever someone goes out the house, i go with her. im never alone in the house wit him ever. girl u just have to pray about it, and ask god to give u the strength to be strong and that ur mom is able to see what he is doing to u.i prayed about it and my mom kicked him out of the house and we pressed charges against him. i used to think that she was going to feel guilty later on in life because she kind of felt what was going on, but her bf was telling her so many lies that she ignored it until she caught him and kicked him out. if u have any more problems and u need someone to talk to, i am here for u girl. just be strong and dont let anyone know or even think that u are scared of them. be strong. u can do it, best of luck.

Answer 11

I had a situation like this in the previous with my mum, yet in a roundabout way she continuously knows at the same time as i have were given a sparkling boyfriend because she says my thoughts-set ameliorations and that i look better happier so frequently i dont needa tell her cos she already knows. yet i visit symbolize to you what i did.. bypass as a lot as your mum and say " Mum, would you thoughts if i had a boyfriend proper this second?" Becuase its no longer unavoidably telling her you do have a boyfriend, and if she says definite she would not choose you having one and says why do you ask merely say you wanted to understand your limits, yet when she says its wonderful then you absolutely say you've merely began in a sparkling courting with this guy and also you quite like him. do not introduce him on your mom merely yet because it really is style of too early in the courting, you dont wanna scare the guy away, so wait until eventually its like 2 - 3 months in the courting.