how do I keep the thought of my girl banging someone else out of my head?

Answer 1

hook up with one of her friends

Answer 2

He didn't say she "DID" bang someone else. He said he thinks about it. I'm going to guess out of fear that maybe she will.

This is a tricky thing that I also have problems with. It doesn't help when you've had girlfriends before that swore they wouldn't and then did anyway. After a while you become jaded and think it's just going to happen. You may even start to question managomy and wonder if it's just too much to ask of people.

All I can say is to try very hard not to which is not easy to do. The truth is you can't control what other people do. Worrying about it before it happens is wasted energy. You're literally stressing yourself out about something that hasn't happened yet (or at least you hope - haha!). There is no point in doing this. Honestly your worrying about it so much could cause it to happen. A girl will be much less likely to cheat if you trust her and don't stress over it. It's not guaranteed but it's better than stressing. Stressing over it will stress her out also and eventually she may get sick of it and do something stupid. Haven't you ever heard the saying, "Well I may as well since I'm already being blamed for it."?

The other thing though, is that you should be with a girl that is trustworthy. She should give no reason for you to suspect anything. Don't put up with an immature girl that is insecure and always looking for attention from men. Those are the ones that need it in order to feel good about themselves. You don't want that crap.

Answer 3

"Banging someone else"???? Wow....your girlfriend sounds like one fun party girl.

If you have this recurring thought in your head I can only guess that what you imagine here is actually fact. Am I right? If so then you answer ME this...why are you still hanging around with her. Oh don't gimme that "Boo-hoo..I love her" sh*t. If you still stay with her then it's either because;

A) She's a gymnist in the bedroom and screws like a rabbit

B) You're a chump and a sucker and like to feel the way you do because you have no guts.

Which is it buddy? Your question is self explanatory. I think your options here are few. Do the right thing. You will not regret it and you'll thank yourself in the longrun. Good luck.

Answer 4

You don't. You let that video run through your mind 24 hours a day or as long as it might take for you to develope a tolerance and immunity to the thought. If it's not working then throw your best friend and your worst enemy into the scenario. By the end of the day you won't care if she's banging your dad.

I hope this answer just changed a life. Peace.

Answer 5

Well, start by figuring out why you're thinking about it. Relationships are based on trust. Has she given you a reason not to trust her? If so, and that's why you can't get it out of your mind, you should break it off with her. Even if she has done something to you that ws wrong, doesn't give you the right to string her along- distrusting her.
Or maybe you keep thinking about it because you secretly have thought of "banging" other girls and are worried that everyone thinks this way.
Good Luck!

Answer 6

Freak out all the time. Start drinking lots, get really mad at everything. Beat your girlfriend, Tell your parents you hate them. Do drugs, quite your job, start stealing stuff from your friends and then sell them. Go find the guy she banged and threaten him. Burn down his house. Then to cap it all off, go and murder the guy your girlfriend was with, then kill your girlfriend. Then kill yourself. Are you kidding me? Why would you ask this question? How are a bunch of people you don't even know going to help you with a problem that only involves you? If you're having serious problems try a shrink, don't rely on internet chat sites to solve your problems.

Answer 7

Your question is very vague. Are you still with this girl? Or are you broken up? If you are together you need to get over it and realize that it is you who she chose to be with. Just sit back and relax and let the relationship take its course. If not you will be sorry for she will eventually leave you for being to jealous. On the other hand if you are not together, you need to move on and get over it! How do you expect to find someone else if you keep harboring these old feelings. Its going to do nothing but drive you crazy.

Answer 8

You never will if she really has and you know about it, but you can forgive her I mean actually tell her you forgive her. That will take allot of the pressure off and when you have those thoughts tell yourself how silly it is, and think "I could bang someone else but I don't because I choose not to".

Answer 9

Well you really dont. It is part of having a heart and feelings. It get easier as time passes but it is always there in the back of you mind. It is wores if you are with her still. And if so then you really should move on. If not then you should find other things to think about then her. And just think she is the on that is cheep and not you. Just be a man.

Answer 10

This is not a complete question. You don't tell us if she actually slept with someone else while you were together. or if you were split up or if you just think she slept with someone else. If she cheated on you dump her once a cheater always a cheater. if ya'll were split up then get over it ya'll weren't together what difference does it make. If you think she's cheating and you haven't said anything to her you can either say something to her or call CHEATERS the show.

Answer 11

Obviously something is there to give you the idea. Whether or not it's a confirmed thing or just you thinking she has done it, if it's becoming frequent, your obviously not over it and there are some trust issues. Once trust is gone, it takes time to build back up, so you will need to either be patient or move on