Would you be happy to be in a nursing home when your time comes (just like the grandpa in the simpsons) or would you rather have a house with a garden and just live there until you die?
2006-06-14 05:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I say you get what you give. If you invested very little time and money in your kids, they will do the same when you are old. My sons already told me they are each gonna build me a house right next to theirs so I can live by them. I hope they all live in the same neighborhood! I love my kids and they love me enough not to put me in a horrid nursing home, which is not only cruel, but a waste of money.
2006-06-14 05:25:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't as younger and in a position as she was once. You recognize while you ought to ask any individual for a desire- it may be a bit uncomfortable? Well, that is in which existence has left her...to depend on others 24/7. To make it worse- it is her possess flesh and blood- it could be diff if the folks that have been looking over her honestly received paid to do it. She prob feels as even though she does not desire to maintain up her possess household..and it may be somewhat embarrassing. Remember- she used to be as soon as a tender, beauitful lady who charmed a person and gave start and raised her possess kids. Now she has to depend on her fam. If you desire to hold to observe over her: inform her that that is what you desire to do!! Tell her that you're doing this becasue she took care of you while you have been younger and now you're pronouncing thanks and repaying the desire!!! Your grandma will likely be long past in the future and you are going to be sooo blissful that you simply have been a side of her existence: she will likely be thankful continually!. But whether it is in every body's high-quality curiosity to have a knowledgeable RN or anything to be together with her at this factor, then you'll be able to continually seek advice from after which she will likely be with folks of her possess age and perhaps lighten strain within the household!! Good success!
2016-09-09 01:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by cosco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to think that I'll live to be 90, fit and healthy, but if I were to become a burden to my children, yes I would like to go to a nursing home.
I would be with people my own age, have regular medical care and still be available to my children without disrupting their lives
2006-06-14 05:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to be home
2006-06-14 05:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to live in my own house as long as possible.
2006-06-14 05:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by angel_girl2248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like not to be a burden on my children
2006-06-14 05:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by omarionsgirl1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i need special health care then i need to be there.
2006-06-14 05:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋