My cousin which is an Aries is dating a cancer girl. He tells me that she is too much for him. She gets mad with the slightliest word. She is always angry with him. She is always asking for money and using up his credit cards. And she putting up a guilt trip since my cousin has his own business.
2006-06-14 05:06:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
I don't buy into stereotypes, but I'll have to say that in my experiences with Cancer suns, they are extremely self-centered & very manipulative. They always have an alterior motive. They do not empathize with people very well & cannot imagine being in the shoes of others. I have also found them to be very prone to lying & lying to cover up the lie, etc... Also, very needy. They get angry quickly, but never just come out and say why they're mad, they play games instead. As an easy-going Gemini, I find Cancers very hard to get along with. Good luck to your cousin, he'll need it!!!
2006-06-14 07:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by Red 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Some people are very manipulative and self-centered, regardless of their Zodiac sign or gender. Your cousin has responsibility over his credit cards and money. He also does not have to endure what sounds like verbal abuse (e.g. getting angry at everything) and emotional abuse (e.g. guilt trips). It's his choice and responsibility.
Good book..."Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You" by Susan Forward and Donna Frazier
2006-06-14 05:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are two kinds of every sign. the "good" cancer is respectful, responsible and HATES wasting money. the "bad".. pretty much what you described. as a rule, cancers tend to be crabby, symbol being the crab and all. it gets worse when they feel insecure or unloved. tell your cousin that shes probably feeling insecure and she might get over it with time. if they've been together awhile and she's still acting like this... maybe that's the way it is.
2006-06-14 05:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Talia 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Im a Cancer, and I am not that way at all. And I myself have not meet a Cancer who was. The chick who ur cousin dated just sounds like a spoiled brat.
2006-06-14 06:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by Frost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Cancer and I find that I am usually the one being manipulated. Also, I'm sensitve but only when it comes to my family members. Outside people and friends usually aren't the ones who make me cry or show any other emotion.
2006-06-14 06:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancer and Aries isn't a good match...aries are too stubborn...he probably said something or did something to herr that made her put up a wall and when that happens it's over...good luck getting through...
2006-06-14 06:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancers like all people have their faults. Dont read too much into this. It's not her you should be concerned with but his gullible ways. It's not even about a sign right now, he needs a reality check.
2006-06-14 07:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Dorsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that I'm generalizing people by when they were born, but the cancers I have know seem to be WONDERFUL manipulators.
2006-06-14 07:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by tabbiecat98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have many friends that are Cancer, they are very sweet, but you know the signs are not really a good way to get to know someone, maybe she is just a B***.
2006-06-14 05:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't generalize an entire group of people simply from when they were born. It would be just as bad to group people by race. She is a psycho b/c that's who she is, not b/c when she was born. He should dump her!
2006-06-14 05:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by allyson71377 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋