My husband never compliments me; what can I do to get his attention? I do want him to think I'm sexy and beautiful, how can I go about this?
2006-06-14 04:58:51 · 8 answers · asked by RX2 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No I am not overwieght; I'm 5'9 150lbs, 24 yrs of age. I have a great job that requires business attire, and when I get home I wear jeans and shirts. I wouldn't say I'm beautiful, but not ugly either. I would just like to know if he still find me extremely attractive.
2006-06-14 05:08:26 · update #1
Prove it show him your sexy side
2006-06-14 05:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by polockpete40 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You need to be aggressive and confident. Even if in your mind your saying Gosh I look stupid but to him you look awesome. Get a sexy night gown and do a dance for him or simply just spoil him. What I do with my husband is I rub his feet with warm oil, then his legs and go up from there. I have had five kids and I am not the skinniest person but my husband always says that sexy is an attitude not in how you look. So have fun with coming up with sexy ways to turn him on :) In time he say what a sexy mama he has at home.
2006-06-14 12:10:45 · answer #2 · answered by tinker143 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the feeling that this isn't about whether or not he thinks you are sexy. This is about you Not getting attention from him. Being Sexy won't get his attention. His not giving you attention is a control thing.
I wouldn't be surprised if he controls the bank accounts, doesn't have as good of a paying job as you, (if he has a job) and expects you to fix his supper when you get home.
2006-06-14 12:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by my_alias_id 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck,its hard for men to change, you can till them until you have no more breath to waste, and they still wont get it. do you know how many times i have asked my husband to say the same thing to me??? well girl i can't even count anymore, and do you think its worked? NO!! so as sad and frustrating as it is, you just got to live with it if you want to stay married. for me its turned into a real BIG issue to the point that it has crushed myself esteem, but ive learned that other men find me attractive and i love the attention from them. so i know that im beautiful and i dont have to rely on my husband to tell me anymore. just be confident in who you are and don't let the fact the your husband is clueless and blind bring your self-esteem down and dont expect things will change over night!! keep reminding him or ask him how you look!
2006-06-14 12:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you try and be sexy and beautiful for him and it would be nice if he show some appreciation for it..sometimes us guys need a reminder or reason to be nice...for lack of a better example, a reward for good behavior can assure it be successfully repeated.
2006-06-14 12:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..are u fat? then u need to slim down! is your wardrobe boring? work on that ! And get sexy lingerie too! Is ur skin bad?eat healthy, invest in some good beauty products and make up..and next time add more details so we can help u out:)
2006-06-14 12:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by princess h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him to think you're sexy and beautiful, have you tried acting / dressing sexy and beautiful for him?
Try it!
Aloha!
2006-06-14 12:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever tried to be sexy and beautiful???
2006-06-14 12:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by sexygrl420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋