how can i get my wife to open up to new ideas ,,sexually,, like roleplaying ,,,, or fantasy's, it seems it's allways the same thing,, same room same ect,,ect ,,ect,,,
2006-06-14 04:58:25 · 7 answers · asked by Rooster 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask her nicely, SUGGEST new ideas to her, don't give her ultimatums. DON'T TELL HER you think your love life stinks, or she will get defensive and withdraw. bring up new ideas slowly and suggest them, and ask her what SHE likes to do and if there is anything SHE wants to try!! Communication makes things in the bedroom only get better!
2006-06-14 05:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
She might be thinking the same thing.....
wouldn't that be interesting?
Seriously, just mention it to her.
"Hey honey, would you ever dress up like a school girl for me, you'd be so cute?" simple, right?
Even if she says no, at least that says to her that you're thinking about doing something new in the bedroom, without insulting her, and actually complimenting her at the same time!.
2006-06-14 12:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by ease_e_goin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go over and beyond what you'd normally do to make her feel comfortable and take it one step at a time, and don't go so extreme, start off with buying her some lingerie and ask her to wear it that night or just start off slow and build it gradually.
2006-06-14 13:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by genger_plum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you turn her on???
If so then "you" use some imagination. Go buy some whip cream and kind of.....
Accidently get some on her.... Oh! no its going to eat through her clothes....You must resc.......... No! but, You the man.
As long as she has a little bit of humor. she'll follow you to the ends of the hot tub. lol!
2006-06-14 12:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by cHeAp_ShOt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her - many women like trying new things.
2006-06-14 12:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her about it...stress how important it is to you to get out of routine...She should understand that if you can't keep your man happy, someone else can
2006-06-14 12:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by carolinayaya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can chat with her and say what u like but do not i repeat do not force her to do sumthing she is not comfertable with.
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2006-06-14 12:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by sabrina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋