What should i do. I feel like, i'm the one always doing everything around the house. Cleaning, mowing the lawn, washing dishes and even taking out the trash. I mean all this dude does is just sit in his room and wack off. The thing is that he is also a friend so i dont really say anything and im not the kind of person to worry of such things. What should i do?
2006-06-14 04:44:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
set up a daily scedule of chores for him to follow.. he may just need direction.
2006-06-14 04:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is obviously bothering you and it should because he is taking advantage of you so i would tell him or write down the chores and put it on the fridge as if he were a little child and let him know these are responsibilitys of the home and he is to help and if he doesnt want to do that tell him to get the hell out of the house,did you rent this place with him or is it your house?this just burns my a...... because i have been there and there is no since in it and tell him if he wants to wack off do it after the chores are done really now this is ridiculous i would kick his *** i usually dont say things like this on yahoo answers but what do people think you arent his maid now if he has the money to pay for one take his extra money and get one and see how long that last i just think you need to find a better roomy or live on your own you will figure it out sweetie good luck with this one been there done that cc
2006-06-14 05:27:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, tell him he has a month to straighten up and start helping or he is going to replaced by someone who can and does help out. And possibly lose your friendship at the same time. This guy is being completely irresponsible and inconsiderate. I would not wait too much longer to do something because you are going to just blow up at him one day and say things you will probably regret so it's best to take care of the situation now.
2006-06-14 05:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by sherry_2481 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to talk to him about and let him know that youre not his mother or his maid, make a shore list on it wright who's doing what which day and if that doesnt work put his dirty dishes under his covers, what ever he leaves laying around the house in front of his tv so hi cant see it or on his bed chair what ever he sits on
2006-06-14 04:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Yissel s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuck!!bad mental picture!always remember this for when you get married!! so you dont expect your wife to do all the cleaning why you sit on your ***!! tell him that yea he's a great friend but you need a little help around the house!! he needs to be pulling his weight not yanking the shank!! you could do it buddy!! speak up you have the right
2006-06-14 04:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever thought of not doing anything aether? Just do your share & leave the rest undone.Make a list of what U do,& what he does,so if someone comes & sees the mess you'll just shou them the list.U did your job & he looks like a total j**kass.
2006-06-14 04:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by punk_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be your friend but that does'nt mean you can't ask him to help you after all he does live there too, And you better worry cause let me tell you something hes got you right where he wants you.. Think about it
2006-06-14 04:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by witchywomen_53 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say something but you don't have to be rude. Ask him if it's ok if you talk to him about something without him getting upset. If he is a friend then he should understand that you are his roomate and not his mother.
2006-06-14 04:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by mother_flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could start charging him for being his maid. Or stack all of his filthy stuff in front of his door so that he has to do something with it. Finally, you could tell him how much it bothers you and that you expect him to do this this and this...
2006-06-14 04:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by justneedascreenname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he thinks your his mom replacement . You need to sit him down and dicuss your issues and try to resolve to find a way where he can work with you
2006-06-14 04:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by beh_sab2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋