What if he lied to you about where he went and was at a strip club and still has not been honest about it?

Answer 1

end it there.

Answer 2

Well...the thing that would upset me even more was the fact that he keeps denying it happened. I mean don't get me wrong, I wouldn't be too happy about my man going to a strip club (at least not without me) Ask him if you can go along next time...most guys really get turned on by that, that way you keep and eye on him and things might really get HOT when you guys get home and go to bed!! If this is something that he does on a regular basis though, especially by himself or with friends, I would NOT be happy with that....what does he need sooo badly in a strip club that he would have to spend so much time there?? He has you, that should be enough. I aggree that guys DO get horny and I'm not necessarily against strip clubs but if it becomes a habit...then there is a deeper problem to deal with.
Talk to him, be honest with him, tell him that if there's one thing you CANNOT deal with...it's a liar...because what else could he be lying about ??
Good Luck to you!!

Answer 3

I'd leave him. Not because he went to a strip club but because he felt he needed to lie. he has now broken the circle of trust. What else has he lied about? Who cares hes lieing so find a honest man.

Answer 4

This is obviously a bigger issue to girls than it is for guys. He can go to one and still love / care for you greatly. He's getting a need filled there that he isn't getting from you. You should confront him about it. Ask him why he feels the need to go to a strip club. Spice it up at home. Now on the otherhand, it isn't all your fault either. If he's going overboard with it, then he could have a bigger problem. Find out how much porn he's checking out.

Answer 5

I would feel like that's for sure not the only thing he was lying about. Also, I would wonder what he's trying to hide, if he might be involved with someone working at the strip club. Then, I would leave him. My time is too precious to spend with someone I can't trust. Not to mention someone who wants to look at someone else naked.

Answer 6

If your woman gets all bent out of shape because you went to a strip club, dump the insecure broad and find one that will go with you.

Answer 7

Let him know that you know where he was. Maybe he is actually embarressed that he went. Maybe he is afraid of how you'd react. Tell him that the strip club doesn't bother you but his lying about it does. If he keeps lying, you need to think twice about a relationship with him.

Answer 8

I'd dump him. I don't have a problem with him visiting strip clubs, but the fact that he was dishonest about it shows that he's willing to lie to me. I would lose all trust when I found out, and no relationship is worth it if you don't trust them.

Answer 9

Lie to me and you're gone. It's the one thing I cannot and will not abide. If they lie about one thing, there isn't anything they won't lie about.

I wouldn't care if he went to a strip club or not, just don't lie to me about it. The lie is much, much worse than the trip to the strip club.

Answer 10

How do you know this????
Nothing wrong in going to a strip club - something wrong with not telling you though. How do you know is important, because what if he wasn' there? And would you mind if he was??

Answer 11

Confront him and make it clear that lying is not something you will tolerate in a relationship. He needs to make a choice to be honest with you or leave. He obviously thinks he has done something wrong or he wouldn't feel the need to lie about it.