Is it ok to live together without legal bindings
2006-06-14 04:42:45 · 8 answers · asked by koki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes i think its ok i believe in marriage but i dont believe in waiting 2 have sex after ur married. it can get frustrating otherwise.
2006-06-14 04:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believing in marriage is different from having sex. Marriage is a social contract that bonds a man and a woman legally. The legal part has to do mainly with the responsibility of the spouses toward each other. It has to do with the children and God knows the label attached to those growing up without a father figure in the house.Couples living together usually do not want children, the commitment is for sex and have a good time. Imagine what would it be if children were born from the transient relationships? Very chaotic indeed for society. I believe in marriage but having sex according to your question falls into a religious point of view.
2006-06-14 12:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly,
You don't need to married to have sex. Just find a nice girlfriend and date her for a while. Believe it or not, but a lot of women don't want marriage or kids. Yes, most women want monogamy, but that doesn't mean they want to spend the rest of their life with you. If I were you I would do two things: 1. Read "The Game" (B&N or Borders- read it there for free or buy it) and "The Mystery Method" (you can download it on any file sharing program like Kaza). These books will REALLY teach you what your dad never did- how to meet, attract, romance and keep a great woman. and 2. START INTERNET DATING. I have met literally dozens of women off the net since 1998- and I would have married a few of them, but for one reason or another it didn't work out- mainly because I moved to CA and they couldn't move as well. Anyway, eHarmony and Match.com are awesome. Get a digital camera and take pics of yourself and spend some time working on your profile.
Hope this helps!
2006-06-14 11:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ihavenoidea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believee in marriage but I also believe in making an intelligent decision about it. I don't believ in divorce. That is why I strongly support for a couple to live and be with each other at least for few years before they take that next step- marriage. That way they will truly see if they are compatible with each other before committing into something more tying down as marriage.
2006-06-14 11:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a christian I would say no, because it is not blibical to co-habit, and also pre marital sex is wrong.Personally i would advise you to wait till you are married, but if you cant wait as a christian I would ask God to give me strenght to flee from fornication and worldly lust.
2006-06-14 11:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by ron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is necessary for the good society as whatever you do is going to affect your children - my view
2006-06-14 13:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by suraj06k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its ok.... we arent in 1950 anymore.... now its perfectly acceptable.... even the "norm"
2006-06-14 11:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't need to havesex
2006-06-14 11:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by Beatifulhunnie1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋