I have been seeing this girl for 4 months. We live about 4 hours from each other. We talk every night and see each other every 2-3 weeks. I may be moving across the country for a career and want her to go with. I want to marry this girl but is 4 months in a long distance relationship too soon? If I don't ask her I know she won't move.
2006-06-14 04:30:16 · 13 answers · asked by whattodo30 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sweetie, my finace and I were only together for 3 months when we got engaged. We are getting married next month, and only 5 months of being together and yet, I know this man's every move, every though. I love him and he loves me. So, if you feel you are doing this because you want to spend the rest of your life with her then by all means ask. If you are only doing this to be with her then tis best not to ask.
2006-06-14 05:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by msoutherngirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is it too soon? Only you can answer that question not me! You know her I don't! If she has spend the past 4 months and things are looking good than go for it!! There is no time limit to getting to know a person sometimes a life is too small!! Look into your own heart and ask yourself the questions you have posted the answer is within you!! You do not need any ones advice we do not know you or her!!! Wish you all the best!
2006-06-14 11:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are questioning whether you should ask her then you probably already know the answer. You are already in a long distance relationship. If you move you will just be in a longer distance relationship. If you are supposed to be with this girl you will be with her. You do not need to rush into anything. If you are questioning it now you will question it down the road. I think you should allow your relationship more time to develop.
2006-06-14 11:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by jennypoo803 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is too soon but what you could do is ask but explain to her you would like a long engament. Usually people are engaged a year or a year and a half before they actually get married. So sure ask then wait a while before you guys spend any money on plans.
2006-06-14 11:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not yet spent enough time together for you to pop the question. You can, however, tell her how strongly you feel and that you would like to plan a future with her. The rest will fall into place if it's meant to be.
2006-06-14 11:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by Your Seester 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you get to know her better and make sure she is the right one for you. Dont rush it and be sure when you do decide to ask her to marry you that she is the right one for you. If she truely loves you she will move with you when you do marry and that will happen then if she is really the one meant to be for you!
2006-06-14 13:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people would need 40 years.. or more and you'd never get to love them, others need just a few days and you're already in love with them.
if you like each other that's the most important thing, just go for it, good luck to you both !
2006-06-14 11:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by hanane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her. 4 months is long enough if you know you love her. there are people who marry in Vegas on the first date!!! good luck let us know
2006-06-14 11:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by Adam C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all u should talk to her. Don't be afraid. It is just so simple. Be frank, tell her about your feelings & your fears. Maybe she is dreaming about making a family with you, & if not u'll just knew what is she feeling. It is better to regret what has done, than has hasn't.
2006-06-14 11:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by Elena M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know shes the one??
if you feel it go for it...
i have been with a guy for 6 years and hes still not sure if he wants to marry me..
GOOD LUCK AND BEST WISHES...
2006-06-14 11:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋