my baby son and his nana?

Question

my son was born feb 3, 2006, he is now 4 months old and my mom died suddenly jan 29, 2006..just 5 days before he was born. she was only 64. she had a lot of health problem with her back and high blood pressure but the main reason, she died was smoking. She went into surgery to have her intenstines removed and she came out of surgery on life support, all cause of smoking is why her body could not handle the surgery. (please quit if you are smoking) My question is do you think my mom can see her new grandson?? and when i go up to the grave, does she really know i'm there?? to me, i do not think so. I lived with her for several years when i was an adult and she helped raise my now 8 year old daughter who she was extremely close too

Answer 1

I think she can. I believe that we are surrounded by goodwill and wonderful memories that make life easier for us. She would want you to be happy and for your baby to have a wonderful life. Tell him about his Nana when he's old enough to understand.

Answer 2

You should believe what ever it is you want to believe, if you want her to be there when you visit the grave she will be. Your mom is going to be with you every where you go. You carry that person in your heart and mind, thats where you have all the wonderful memories of her at. As far as your children go , they say a child can see alot more than you do. Sometimes a childs imagination and memories are so strong that they can actually carry a conversation out with someone alive or not. Everyone has a soul right, and your mother passed just before your son was born, maybe who knows maybe she gave her soul to your son. Even if you don't believe that its still a nice thought.

Answer 3

The only way we could answer this with certainty is if we had come back from the death and knew how things worked after we died.

But I do think that after we died we stay around for a little while to try to solve issues we left unsolved. For her one of her issues might be meeting her brand new grandson, although maybe she met him even before you did, in heaven.

Answer 4

yes. SHe can indeed. :) My sister had the same experienc when her child, my nephew was born. Pop does indeed stop in to check on his grandson. Sometimes he'll be looking over her should and giggling at something that isn't there, when he plays or when she changes him. I know it's Pop. :) So have a bit of cheer. You'll see her again. I don't believe in much anymore, but I DO believe the energy that makes us who we are, continues on after the death of our physical form.

Answer 5

It depends on your views about the "after-life". If you believe in heaven then yes, she can see you (not only when you are at her grave, but anytime). Or if you believe in reincarnation, then yes, "she" can see you and you son in person. If you believe that once you die, there is nothing, then I guess the answer is no, she can't.

I personally believe in heaven (and hell) and so yes, I believe that I am being watched over by those who have passed away.

I am sorry for your loss.

Answer 6

My father died in 2002. When I go to his grave I don't feel him there. But I do feel him with me sometimes. Especially when I visit my mother at thier house. He came to me in a dream a few days after he passed. So yes, I think your mother can see her grand baby. And no I don't think she is at the grave. But it does feel good to go to the grave to pay respects. Just know she is with you everywhere.

Answer 7

i am so sorry to hear about your loss the same happened to me with my grandfather right before my daughter was born i feel they can see everything they know how cute and sweet your children are there watching over them when i visit the grave i feel they know im there i talk to them and tell them things that are going on it kinda helps me deal with there loss feeling i can still talk to them just not getting a response i hope things work out

Answer 8

omg i know what you r going through.my mom anted a grandchild so i became pregnant and then found out she got cancer from SMOKING and breast and brain she only lived 3 months.she new that i was going to have a girl.which i did.a little piece of me hopes she can see me raising my children so i like to believe she does see them but i dont believe in god.but this sis different though cause shes my mom and i love her and i knew she was real anyways i think your mom can shes proud believe me.

Answer 9

I dont think you have to go to the grave, they can see you where ever they are. just make sure you tell you soon about her when he is old enought to understand. I'm sorry you lost your mother.

Answer 10

She is there and knows you are there. Your son is just as special to her as your daughter. I am sure she is looking down with a smile on her face.