2006-06-14 04:27:36 · 27 answers · asked by Nick R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Grow up...if you are bored with your wife, the problem is you, not her. How can you get bored of your wife? She probably does a million things a day that make your life wonderful and you probably take it all for granted. Part of being married and in a long term relationship is realizing that it isn't all fun and games all the time. There are times when you get in a rut and a constant routine and you have to be willing to work your way through it and not give up.
2006-06-14 04:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bored With My Wife
2016-12-18 08:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, maybe she's bored with YOU too???
Maybe you could spice your love life up with some "change"....
The routine getting boring doesn't it?
Simple solution to it though......
Don't let it get boring!
Create something to relight the fire.
There is a really good way for re-kindling. It takes both but work together and spend a week pampering each other with lots and lots of touch BUT NO INTERCOURSE
You can massage each other, toy and bath and play games but by the end of the week you'll be ripping each others clothes off! HAHAHA!
It works, but also takes effort from both and I can't guarantee you'll wait the week but the "re-exploring" is fun and great to get each other back in touch in the bedroom area
Good Luck and have lots of fun!
2006-06-14 04:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by WW 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are bored with her chances are she is bored with you.Its hard to find time to talk anymore,but sometimes you just have to make time.believe me when I sat the grass aint no greener on the other side of the road.In a since most women basicaly want the same things,and bad as I hate to admit nag about the same things as well.some just have a nicer package to look at.I suggest you start doing things together ,aven something as eating supper together.try a little kinky sex and some wine.Think about what attracted you to her in the begging and remember all the love you have shared.maybe your not bored with her maybe youre bored with being married
2006-06-14 04:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by carolinagirlatk 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Awww, does da widdle boy want to be entertained?
Sorry dude, but you need to pay attention here. If you are bored, chances are she is bored too. Your life is as interesting as you make it. So quit yer b*tching and do something to make your life together more interesting. Take responsiblity.
Besides, only boring people get bored.
2006-06-14 04:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
big block is right and those who echo him as well. Do you remember what it was like when you first met? Can you revive those feelings? Not just you, both of you? If so then go back to your "first love"... the way you felt then. Do the things you did then. Did you bring her flowers, go for walks, hold hands, listen to each other, kiss? See what I mean? Marriage should be like dating. Sure your gonna have bad times, but thats when you are supposed to have each other to lean on. Cry together when someone dies or is seriously injured, Big Boys DO CRY. Even God wept for us and HE IS bigger than all of us, male or female. Do something different, learn something together, my parents played music together( they could even play the same piano, guitar,mandoin or what ever together. My great grand parents on Moms side both could crochet. It is not silly for a man to do that. Rosie Greer played pro football and he did needle point to relax....no one laughed at him that I know of. Read love poems to each other or read "Song of Soloman" from the Bible to each other as if you wrote it to each other. By the way the Bible is a Love Letter from God to us...read it as well. Try drawing together or writing poetry, learn how to massage each other... it is soothing, relaxing and shows kindness especially if you have aching mucsles from lifting something. Or doing things that can make you sore...like painting a ceiling or wall or building a patio deck. Or just give a massage just to do it. Find a place where you can view the sunrise or sunset together while you eat breakfast or just watch it without food. Can't promise you that it will work every time for everyone tho. It worked for my parents and my Moms grandparents but not for her parents or for the male I married. Nothing was good enough for him, short of cheating on me; and then accusing me of being the one cheating.
2006-06-14 05:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by 1magicmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat! If it's that bad leave her don't hurt her! I just left my husband of 5 years (together 11) because we out grew each other and I didn't want to do anything to hurt him! Even if they are good people don't stick around and be miserable because that brings everybody down, trust me I know! It's gonna hurt like a son of a b**** but in the long run you will heal better and so will she.
2006-06-14 04:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by jonesi0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you are seeking ways to make your marriage work, as long as it's not lip service. It seems to me if you have been entertaining thought of other women. Maybe you just need to focus on your wife and stop the flirting. Flirting usually leads to more. I hope theses sites help you.
2006-06-14 04:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Why are you bored with your wife? How long have you been married? Then I can probably help.
2006-06-14 04:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't uncommon. Marriage is a roller coaster with lots of ups and downs. The key is to recognize the "downs" and ride it out. If you're bored figure out ways to make things interesting, this isn't rocket science here.
2006-06-14 07:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by anthrogirl26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋