2006-06-14 04:14:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
do you forgive them? go to there funeral?
2006-06-14 04:15:16 · update #1
She'd have me undress for whippings and abused me is ways you can't dream of. I was sexually molested to by her friends. She knew and let it go on.
2006-06-14 04:17:20 · update #2
I know it is hard, sweetie, but i think you should forgive them, it will make you feel like you lost 100 lb. But i don't think you should go to the funeral. I hope you would want to go to some kind of therapy for help so you can help yourself. I know you probably hate yourself right now, i felt that wat before, but thanks to god, I am better now. Take care and God Bless. If you need someone to talk to you can e-mail me.
2006-06-14 04:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a child, I was always told that if I did not go to my father's funeral- my mother would never go to see her grandchildren. This has put alot of stran on me becaus I was emotionally, sexually, and pshycially abused. As an adult, I still am pshycially & emotionally abused. So no I can never forget what happen to me, but I am willing to try to put it all behind me. As for the funeral, I have not decided yet after all my father wants to be burned so all I have to do is look at ashes and say my good-byes.
2006-06-14 04:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by BB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never been in that situation but i think you would need to go to the grave and forgive her but not for what she has done. forgive the fact that she was a very sick woman.i feel thats the only way you'll be able to start your healing for yourself. don't do it for her bc she don't deserve it. do it for you so you can move on and be a better person and try to put your pain behind you as you will never forget but it might help your pain inside. good luck
2006-06-14 04:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by kansasgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My father was abusive. No, I will not forgive him, and I probably will not go to his funeral when he dies. He was supposed to be my dad, for god's sake. Kids are supposed to be able to trust and love their parents, not be scared to death of them.
2006-06-14 04:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know about that. if you think you might regret not going, then go. personally, i would go to make sure that monster is in the ground... but that's just me.
2006-06-14 04:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by hg mccain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, bc im the type of person who holds a grudge.
2006-06-14 04:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋