theres this girl i been talkin to for about 3 months now and i knew her every since the 4th grade. we were going to go toghter but somethng eles happen. i made a bet with her saying that if Detroit bets Miami i will go with her. But they Didn't also i told her i like this one girl named Laila and she told me that she like this one guy named Joey. I don't really like Liala just as a friend and one of her friends told me that she don't like joey but me. I haven't talkin to her in about a week. i need to know what is going to be my next move. I really like her alot. but iam afiad that if we come more then friend we can never go back. i just can't get her off my mind shes all i am thinking about.
2006-06-14 04:09:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
okay this happen to me once don't paly around tell her how you feel umm...don't make crazy bets like this because you will lose the one u like the most. just tell her
2006-06-14 04:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by </33 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know, chances are she feels the same way and is too shy to speak up. Someone's gotta be make the first move! Also let her know that you value her friendship more than anything and if anything were to happen between the two of you, you wouldn't want to lose that friendship. Its a tough situation when you're such good friends first. Good luck!
2006-06-14 11:12:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u need to sit alone and had a cup of coffee then take a bath and then just find a peacefull place and then stay quite and listan what ur heart says
if u realy want her u can tell her and if u dont want her more than a frnd then just stay where u r and dont put forward ur mind.. its all u who has to decide what u wana do next
heart never listen anybody else it always do what he wanted to do
and if she really feel the same then u heart will surely go for her..
so better not to worry and stay coooooooool
good luck god bless
ur frnd:
angel
2006-06-14 11:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very simple! Why do you want to make your life difficult by beating around the bush! Be straight forward, be honest with her and tell her how you feel! You will be surprised sometimes how the other persons response is. We have made life difficult for us, seems like no one wants to be honest now a days, why do you want to spend your time thinking of 100 ways or moves to get to her why not just be simply be honest!
Call and tell her that you want to meet up cuz you have something important to talk to her about and than tell her how you feel towards her that simple!! Be realistic and practical.
Good luck!!
2006-06-14 11:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is that impotant u should go for it before someone else does. be more impulsive with your life, u probably not gonna remeber 2years from now unless u guys are still together. and stop with all that he said she said stuff, thats the first thing that will distory a relationship. just say to her "hey baby u know how i feel about you, and i was wondering if u feel the same about me, cuz i would really like us to b more than friends. u r so speaical to me, words can't discride the way i feel about u. so u wanna give us a chance, if anything ever happens between us i promise we will always be friends." u say it just like that u gonna get her. and if u cutie thats gonna help to . bring your "A" game player
2006-06-14 11:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by Yoshi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go to her, and say "Well I know I lost the bet, but would you still like to go together?" It should work if she really does like you. The worst she could say is NO right? Good luck!
2006-06-14 11:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by Doesnt Matter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r such a dumba!ss for saying u like laila when u dont, u really hurt her thats why she also said she likes joey, make it up to her, talk to her, tell her u like her and that u lied cos u dont really like laila.
2006-06-14 11:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know that she loves u too then i don't think there is any problem just told her that you were joking and u don't have such girlfrd,u were just noticing her reaction and now u came to know that she also loves u.be bold u are a boy
good luck
2006-06-14 11:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by pari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to it - - you all are playing kid head games. When you grow up - you won't be doing this kind of thing.
2006-06-14 11:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and ask her! it's about time
2006-06-14 11:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by dede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋