My ex and I have been over for almost two yrs.He and his gf and other people have been following me everywhere I go.I filed police report,called his mothers house,and called his gf as well. He knows I know its him but he won't say anything. This has been going on for more than 1yr. Since they don't have descency to say why they are doing this to me how can I resolve this problem? They come around my house,and my family houses and its every day.I don't know what they want cause they are cowards and won't stop to talk.I'm at the point of wanting to hurt one of them.Please help me SERIOUS ONLY!!!
2006-06-14 04:03:28 · 8 answers · asked by elco53 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get a lawyer and file for a restraining order. This guy is way too wierd and possibly dangerous.
2006-06-14 04:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by Showoff 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He (and his new gf) is obviously getting a kick out of intimidating you and anything confrontational you can do to prevent it, such as going to the police etc., is just fueling his satisfaction.
How about you try some reverse psychology here - next time he's about with her... flirt with him and make sure she sees. Say something like you now realise why he's been following you for all this time, it's because he still wants you etc. and very soon hopefully his gf, with the knowledge of your past, will get jealous and tell him that he mustn't see you anymore...
2006-06-14 11:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by Robin the Electrocuted 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Video tape them doing this and take it to the police and file a restraining order on both of them. Its hard to get one is why i say get it on tape for evidence and proof. After the order is served if they do it again make sure you have witnesses or the video tape and catch them. Take it to the police and they both go to jail for violation of a restraining order and harassment.
2006-06-14 11:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a restraining order against both. Next time they come close to you you can call the cops and they will arrest them
2006-06-14 11:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when my ex's started to harrass me i tried everything also but nothing worked so i went up to the person that was following me and politely asked them for the time or directions or where is the best pizza place. they got tired of me confronting them instead of letting it bother me that they were being children in their game of tag. don't go out and harrass them just polite innocent questions. hope this helps.
2006-06-14 11:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS TRYING TO MAKE YOU JEALOUS!!!! By you letting it bother you, you are playing right into his hands. My advice, find a guy more attractive than him. Then follow him around. When he sees you, plant a kiss on your new guy. This will probably make him feel like you are feeling right now.
2006-06-14 11:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jokerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're tired of them following you go to them and say "Look I'm tired of you following me around, and when I ask you what you're doing you're to scared to answer so unless you want me to get a restraining order STOP FOLLOWING ME!!!!"
2006-06-14 11:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by Caite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a drug rehab counselor. They can help.
2006-06-14 11:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋