Im having my 1st baby and i wanted to have a water birth good or bad idea?

Question

And no Drugs at all. My fiance is cool wit it but our parents not. What do you think?

Answer 1

It sounds like you're going the semi-natural birth route. Awesome!Water birth is a perfectly acceptable method of birthing; the baby also won't have as much of a 'rude' transition, when compared to a birthing table. Water birth is safe, natural and gentle.

Since this is a baby we're talking about here, it will have consequences MUCH farther reaching than just the few weeks after the birth. Congratulations! Personally, I think keeping the level of drugs to a bare minimum is not only a good idea, it shows a level of maturity on your part. And since you and baby share the same blood stream, anything that you have the baby will have too.

My advice would be three things; A). Make the decision you and your fianceé want to make, B). Be okay with that decision, and C). When you go into labor, don't stress it too much (other than the necessary straining to give birth).

It IS your choice, since your baby can't tell you what he or she wants. It's a big adventure. Enjoy it.

Answer 2

Great idea! And bravo for natural too!

In AZ (where I live), a hospital won't let you have the baby in the water. Some won't let you in the water after your membrane has ruptured (water breaks) but most will let you soak until pushing then get you out (if they have water facilities). The only place (other than home) to have a "true" water birth is in one of the two birth centers in AZ, and that is done with a midwife. You need to check with your hospital about their policies or research birth centers in your area. I personally loved my birth center experience so much that I became a devoted fan and eventually and employee. :)

About your parents: I don't know how old you are but assuming you are over the age of 18 and independent, now is a good time to practice something that you will need to use a lot when you have a kid: "Thank you for your advise. We will take it into consideration as we make the best choice for our family." That's it. You need to do what is best for you. If they are too freaked out about it, don't have them present at the birth. You don't need their fear getting in the way of your good birth. And you can have a great, wonderful, powerful birth! I had both my kids naturally (though not in the water, I didn't want that). It was hard, sometimes it hurt but I am so glad I did it the way I did. I don't think natural birth is for everyone but it is important that you choose the way you want to do it out of a place of education and strength--this goes a long way to having a good birth, whatever it looks like.

Answer 3

Very good idea- but be prepared for anything. I had a planned homebirth with a midwife with my third child and wanted to birth in my tub- but ended up not wanting it while I was in labor. Your mind and body will know what is best in labor- good you want to go natural! Your body is designed for birth and you can do it! Sure, labor hurts- it's supposed to- but the water may help relax you and help you through the pains. Good luck!

Answer 4

Dont listen to your parents. Its your baby NOT theirs. I delivered my baby in a hospital with drugs by choice. Even though my mom told me it was better to go natural. If you want a water birth, go for it. I hear it helps pain and is easier to push. Babies dont breath until they reach the air anyways. So they arent going to drown or anything. I would love to try a water birth.

Answer 5

With my first child I wanted a water birth. Unfortunately, my child had health issues so we couldn't do that. I think as long as you and your baby are healthy, you can be open to the idea. Just make sure your doctor or midwife is on the same page as you.

Answer 6

You need to do whatever you feel would be most comfortable to you as long as you have a good doctor and fiance to help you through it. People do it everyday. Do what you feel in your heart is the right thing for you. Parents mean well, but that doesn't mean they are right. It's your body in the end who has to go through this.

Answer 7

I think it's a cool concept. If it's your first and this is what you want to do, go for it. Your body, your choice. As for the parents it's not up to them.

It's amazing how when we get older and we are pushed to make our own decisions and when we get grown and start doing that, our parents still want to tell us what to do and dictate our lives.

Best of luck on whatever you decide to do.

As for the drug free thing, I will pray for you. And I say this lovingly.

Answer 8

That sounds wonderful!!! This is your babies birth, not your parents. Talk to your doctor to see if he/she performs water births, if so, good for you.
I had my baby with no drugs and spend most of my labor in the jacuzzi tub with lukewarm water, and it was fantastic.
Do what feels right to you!

Answer 9

According to discovery health channel it is good thing..
I personally have not heard anything bad when it comes to this and I know couple families who have done this too
at the end of the day,, its your decision

Answer 10

Just make sure you have a good doctor supervising you, and consult him/her. Also that the procedure takes place in an organised and efficient clinic or hospital.