we just moved into a house.my neighbors name is phillis and he calls her philly baby.we dont have curtains in the living room or the kitchen yet and my husband runs around the house in his underwear sometimes and he looks over at her house as if he is wondering if she is looking.She has a boyfriend but he doesnt live with her and when he goes over her house and my husband sees him he calls him names and he really doesnt even know him.Could he be interested in her?
2006-06-14 03:57:25 · 14 answers · asked by melissa a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not sure if he calls her philly baby to her face cause I am not around him when he talks to her. But I wouldnt doubt it
2006-06-15 00:27:32 · update #1
Sounds like he wants to be noticed. Tell him to stop acting so childish. Also, you need to remind him who he is married to, and that the neighbor is taken.
2006-06-14 04:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jokerman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is the truth. She acknowledged one of his hidden flirts you never see, and he is impressed with himself thinking"it worked". He thinks he has a shot at it, I mean what guy don't want to screw the neighbor, but like most men he also will never react on it. What I say is let him have his glory sometimes we like to be sexy and acknowledged for our sexiness. Be reactive and when he struts around tell him that he is going to cause you to kick her butt for peeping at you through your window he will get a big head I mean really two girls fighting over him and probably stop. Why does everybody get mad turn it around into some thing good.
2006-06-14 04:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Best answer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your husband sounds like a moron. Yeah, he has a thing for this neighbor of yours but if she is smart, she would help keep it on the freind level. I know it is tempting because I just moved into a neighborhood that has several hot momas and never had that situation before. I try to keep the conversations to a minimum. Get some blinds for your windows.
2006-06-14 04:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she's attractive then he's probably attracted to her. I suspect that all men and women are attracted to attractive people. The difference is how we handle those feelings. If he's the type of guy who would cheat given a chance then it really doesn't matter who he cheats with or when it happens, he's a cheater and should be treated as such. If, on the other hand, he's just acting that way to get a rise out of you then, in some strange look-how-sexy-I-am guy logic sort of way, he's actually expressing his desire for you... similar to how a male peacock fans it's tail and struts around to impress the girls. I guess to know which one your guy is I would need a little clarification. Is he calling her Philly Baby to her face and is he calling her boyfriend names to his face or is he just doing that for you?
2006-06-14 04:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by texaspicker0 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so. He probably likes the thought that she might be watching though. You need to get blinds or curtains quickly!
2006-06-14 04:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by paula91722 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, and i think u need to call cheaters on this one.. LOL.. Actually you have a very good reason to suspect, and i think u should get to know the neighbor on ur own time, and maybe truth will be told. But dont worry. What comes around goes around. Best belive that.. Sooooo you'll catch him in the act.. But i hope it dont come down to that.
2006-06-14 04:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jeremy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep! Sounds like he likes something about her.
2006-06-14 04:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by sgoinluv 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put up some curtains or blinds. I think your hubby is having a little fantasy going there.
2006-06-14 04:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorta sounds that way - does she return his attention?
2006-06-14 04:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh yea hes interested in her. You need to confront him about it immediately. Tell him what youve noticed.
2006-06-14 04:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he probabley is. it sounds like he has been entertaining thoughts of her. and that leads to more thoughts and possibly destruction. just watch him girl, observe him more and more, if this continues say something!!!
2006-06-14 04:04:16 · answer #11 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋