I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. Im 17 and shes 18 and we have been together for 4 years. although we have been friends since we were 2. We got drunk and had sex. i regreted it cos of our friendship but she didnt. she wanted to try things with me but i was kind of weary. but it was great. we have talks about the futer and its not as if i need to get to know her cos i do. we were talking about getting engaged and we both agreed on it. but yesterday i found a condom in the toilet and it wasnt mine. i dont know whet to say to her. what shall i do?
2006-06-14 03:54:20 · 17 answers · asked by jamseyb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to tell her how you feel and ask her about the condom you found in the toilet. Ask her who's condom was it?. If you can't trust her you shouldn't even think about being together let alone think about getting engade.Good Luck
2006-06-14 04:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a shame when someone is faithful in a relationship and the other one is just fooling around. If it's a used condom and she never mentioned to you that who and who were there and they used the bedroom for you know what then I'm afraid she's cheating on you. But otherwise ask her about it and let her explain and if you're not convinced then look for someone else who can and will appreciate you. No need to be in a relationship where you don't trust one another and wondering all the time whether the person is cheating on you on not - that is just unnecessary headaches.
2006-06-14 12:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about it! I mean, unless you were sneaking into the bathroom and peeking into the toilet when you were not allowed into the bathroom *LOL* then you certainly ought to be able to mention a condom in the toilet! BTW...not the best place to dispose of condoms...
Maybe she was just curious about them and was looking at them. Maybe she was cleaning and found the one you tossed off under the bed a few weeks back. Maybe it's her parents' (assuming she lives at home)
Just ask. If you can't ask about a condom in the toilet, then you have more problems in your relationship than condoms in the toilet *LOL*
2006-06-14 11:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by tallcowboy0614 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all mate i would confront her it could have been just a carry on with a condom see if u can catch her out about it and then u might have a clearer picture of whether she has or hasn't all the best m8 cos it has happened to me after 4 years of being with someone and it isn't nice
2006-06-14 11:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by craigy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to get married. Think of it this way ... how long will you live? And so how far away is middle age? That's a lot of time to be married to the wrong person. In my opinion you should move on and look around before you settle down.
2006-06-14 11:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by angelpockets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? You're way to young to get married. Why would you want to tie yourself to someone who you can't trust. Even if she isn't, the fact that you can't trust her is a sign. Go with your gut and drop her like a 2 foot putt and find someone who worships you like you do her.
2006-06-14 10:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by Doug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 17 and she is 18yrs old. my dear don't you think it too early for you to think of anything like this and rather concentrate on your progress and make some something of your life as i find its just starting. but any way, as you had asked i feel your trust to this women is diminished so best thing for you is to talk it out with her and clear your doubts.
2006-06-14 11:06:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it used, does she have a toy...do you suspect anyone particular...you being hesitant/regretted to have sex and she didn't tells me she could have found another partner...you can set her up and sneak and find out for yourself, which I don't suggest, its to painful, or you can ask her to be honest about it....good luck.
2006-06-14 10:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask why there was a condom in the toilet... And ask her to be completely honest...
2006-06-14 12:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who tries to flush a condom?
2006-06-14 10:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by cj b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋