When parents on fighting verbally kids should keep their mouths shut. Not their place to be involved. Kids are not the parents and they are not to police parents. Nothing makes me madder then when kids feel they are above the parent. KIDS KNOW YOUR PLACE!
2006-06-14 03:45:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well then I guess kids need to stay home from family vacations
2006-06-14 06:33:30 · update #1
Yes I agree with you. kids should totally stay out of adult fights
2006-06-14 03:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids should not butt into the fights of the parents but on the other hand the parents shouldn't be fighting in front of the kids! The parents should be taking the fights somewhere out of the kids ear shots.
If you are thinking how it used to be a long time ago, parents would go fight in the car or somewhere the kids could not hear them.
Parents also need to know their place.
I am a parent and it really does affect the kids when parents fight in front of them. And if the parents want to air their dirty laundry in front of their kids then the kids have all rights to say something.
2006-06-14 10:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by lu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom and Dad fighting in front of the kids is one of the worst, most harmful experiences for them. When my parents would fight and yell at each other it would hurt me more than if they were yelling at me. More than likely the kids are getting involved as a defense mechanism, to try to get the fighting to stop. And if Mom and Dad are cruel enough to fight in front of the children, obviously they need that wake-up call!
2006-06-14 10:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Vita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we as responsible adults, wouldn't subject kids to fighting, they wont have a chance to become involved! It is abusive to fight in front of kids! Do you think that if it was your father or mother in an altercation with another you wouldn't be affected? Take your fights somewhere else, they do not belong in front of those poor kids, they didn't ask for you two to be together in the first place!
2006-06-14 10:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by jusb4dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little angry are we. Hey my parents are divorcing and I'm 25 now and half the issues they had I didn't even know about until now. They fought but they didn't do it to where us "the kids" wouldn't know about it. I do agree with you kids need to respect their parents and keep thier mouths shut, I wouldn't go near my pops or moms when i knew they were pissed. Hell naw I'd get a whoopin for something I did 3 months ago. Time to go out side and play, see ya.
2006-06-14 10:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey go easy on the kids, the damn parents should have the common sense not to fight in front of them. Kids love unconditionally and give their opinions because they're afraid that the parents will not be there for them.
2006-06-14 11:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by messedupsingledad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents shouldn't be fighting in front of their children. It sets the example that it is okay to fight and argue which is why the children are trying to get involved in the fights in the first place.
2006-06-21 15:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by yogazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that parents if at all possible should not fight in front of their kids. That way the kid would never have to be faced with the decision about whether they should say something. I think it is wrong to argue in front of your kids and my husband and I wait until after they are in bed to discuss our disagreements.
2006-06-14 10:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by blueeyes05_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you realy want kids to stay out of there mom and dads fights then comman since would tell the mom and dad NOT TO FIGHT around or infront of the kids
2006-06-14 11:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
l Totally concur, a child is a child and unless there is some abuse going on they should stay in a Childs place. But I do not think parents should fight in front of their children, because they may start to think that, that kind of behavior is ok
2006-06-14 10:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by Ray-Ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋