He was real close to my family and friends when we were 2gether, but I have told him several times if were not 2gether any more why keep coming around. I can go over one of my friends house and they are females he will be sitting there just chilling with them like it aint nothing.
2006-06-14 03:42:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'd get a restraining order. But then again, I don't fool around with things like this.
2006-06-14 03:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go! It seems that he still likes the company or friends that you introduced him to. If there's no hate between you two, then keep it that way, let it be. But if he's doing it to get on your nerves, then that's a horse of a different color and you should deal with it like an adult. First you would ask him to please stop coming around because it is making you uncomfortable and you wish for him to move on. Second, let your family and friends know that he is doing it to get on your nerves and they should handle it from that point on. Tread lightly and try not to offend anyone that may have accepted this person with open arms regardless of your feelings, it will have you hating him and having to choose who your friends are and you may come up short on this one. Evaluate the situation, then react.
2006-06-14 10:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by Robert W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well unless u r still friends tell him to go away or report him to the police for harassment, cuz if u arent friends thats wrong, i am not kidding about the police, it might be ltaken as a official offense u know tell him he is asking for troble and he should leave u alone if u dont want u to call the police on him or if u are friends then there shouldnt be a problwm u know? i mean i kno it sounds kind of harsh callin the police on him, but it COULD be classifies as harassment
2006-06-14 10:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's doing this for YOU !!! You must be reacting in some way that he notices. He's trying very hard to keep you upset. If you just ignore him and don't let it upset you, he will eventually lose interest in his game. He's trying to get to you and he doing a good job. You're playing right into his hands.
IGNORE THE GUY!!! PLAY LIKE HIS PRESENCE DOESN'T MEAN A THING TO YOU.
2006-06-14 10:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO, I don't think your ex-boyfriend should be hanging around your family. However, when it comes to hanging around friends, just because you broke up doesn't mean he can't still be friends with your friends. I know it is probably uncomfortable for you but still.
2006-06-14 10:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Gwendolyn W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are your damn friends, they would tell him themselves. If they know, and they are still acting like nothing is up, they are not your friends. If they don't know that you are uncomfortable with him being around, tell them. Same with your family. They should respect your wishes. He isn't.
2006-06-14 10:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get a restraining order, I sounds like he is trying to keep you in his life and he obliviously does not care about your feelings.
2006-06-14 10:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by blueeyes05_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to file a restraining order if he refuses to leave you alone.
2006-06-14 10:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's bothering them, try to let it go.
If he's bothering them, talk to him about it or get a restraining order. XD
2006-06-14 10:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by Arielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call the police and scare him and tell him that he has to get out of my life.
2006-06-14 10:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by knighttwin2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋