Is love worth it?

Question

I'm though wit love forever!I hate this **** more then ever now!I'm crazy now,I've crossed the line!!!!!

Answer 1

Love is always worth all our effort. To have loved and lost is a lesson in growing.

Answer 2

WOW I don't know how old you are but. Love is well worth it. The Marriage , Kids , Family and the knowledge that the one you love will be there until the day you die. Sometimes we have to be careful how we toss around the love word. You can love many things about a person and confuse it with the whole package.

Don't let whatever happened to you get you down. For many us finding true love means getting your heart broken at times. In time this will pass. Someone else will come along and make us feel a little bit better a little more whole but this time around we try not to make the same mistakes.

I know it sounds a little bit confusing because Love is just that. Confusing as hell.

Answer 3

You did not tell us where and how you crossed the line. In any case, if you loved someone in the past and somewhere down the road you think it's not worth it any more, no problem. Pack it up and look for a better love. But you have to remember that you should never look back.

Answer 4

Obviously, what you experienced wasn't actually LOVE.

Love is the complete acceptance of what IS. NO substitutions, exceptions or changes. What IS.

It's the way we hope others' will "love" us. Isn't it?

If you have not completely accepted another person without trying to change or wishing to change or hoping to change ONE SINGLE THING they do or they are, then you have not truly loved that person. And if someone has not COMPLETELY accepted you without hoping, wishing trying to change ONE SINGLE THING about you, then they have not truly loved you.

Here's the biggest question to ask yourself when you decide to throw a pity party because it didn't work out with some guy-it's a brutal question and it MUST be answered with stark honesty;
At this very moment in your life, would YOU marry YOU?

If you can honestly say yes, try listing all the things that you are ready and able to bring to a marriage right this second.

If you must honestly say no, try making a list of all the things you still need to learn and do before you could really be ready for a lifetime relationship.

Answer 5

Its tough when love doesn't work out. The only thing that helps is time. Ever heard that saying out of sight out of mind. Staying away from someone that hurts you heals the pain. In the mean time friends and keeping as busy with positive things help not to think about it so much until one day you realize that you're ok. And meeting new people will open doors to a new love that will bring happiness. :- )

Answer 6

Is love worth it ??? is a very good question... I just went through some crap too, and I don't believe right now... but that's just for right now, I think that once you have a chance to evaluated yourself and you have overcome what obstacles you have in front of you and even some you don't see right now... you'll find that when the time comes you'll not only be there waiting for love but you'll think " this WAS worth it!

Answer 7

"Tis better to have loved..." As the famous poem goes.
It's best to take a look at what the real problem is; are you too trusting, are you too giving, are you picking the wrong people or letting the wrong people pick you?

A person must be a friend first, then see if there really is love.

Answer 8

it is a difficult question to answer and must be applied to yourself before anyone else can answer this question really the decition is entirely up to you some people were never meant for such things while others are completely misserable without a companion but the difficult answer is who to choose as a companion through life as love is not a mere feeling as most would suggest but more action which is considered an act of love? (for someone to say the worlds "i love you") or (for them to declare to others how happy they are with you?

Answer 9

well if you like the guy made sure that it is the right guy for you but don't move too quickly into a relationship.........it will ruin it for good. is love worth it? yes because you need someone to be there for you when times are hard....and someone needs to be there for your safety. my parents have been married for 25 years and have never been divorced. that is because they love each other.

Answer 10

love has its ups and downs and everyone has at some point said they hated it, but it has its way of working out. Hate it for now thats good to feel your pain and learn lessons in life and in time when love comes back around you will be wiser!!!