how would YOU feel and what to do???????

Question

My boyfriend has female friends..I don't mind this, but they like to talk dirty to him. text messages like you wanna fu** me. They maybe just jokieing ,but it is a turn off for me. so i dont like him getting text from them. It has nothing to do with jeliousy, it has more to do with respect of other ppl. feelings. He dont seem to understand that it isnt that he has female friends. It' s how they like to talk to him sometimes. my feelings should be a consideration. At least i think so.

Answer 1

Your boyfriend should not want to be in a realtionship if this is the kind of behavior he likes to do with his female friends. There is no way you will ever feel better about what he is doing. Sound like he doesn't have to much respect for you or your feeling.

Answer 2

He doesn't respect you. If he did he would have first stop the girls from sending the text message and second he wouldn't give you a reason to feel the way you do. If you have talked to him about it well it's best if you just let him go. There is no use in feeling the way you do because eventually he's going to end up hurting you emotionally.

Answer 3

if he is talking to them like that and not considering your feelings I think that you should tell him that there is no respect there and you know what you need to do.

If you are in a relationship with someone there needs to be respect. If you do not feel that you are getting that respect then you need to figure out if the relationship is worth it.

How would he feel if you received text messages from male friends saying that kind of stuff?

Answer 4

I know what you mean bc my boyfriend had girls calling my at 12:00 at night and crazy times like that and he would always walk off talking to them and not sit there beside me so i told him about it and how it made me feel i just didnt like the fact that they were calling him that late they should respect me and call at a respectful time and that when they do call he dont have to get up and walk away bc that makes it look like there is something there...so i would say talk to him about it.

Answer 5

And you are absolutely right he should care about your feeling and i f he doesn't you shouldn't be with anyone like that because soon enough it will probable lead to him doing something a little more that will hurt you feelings badly. You don't want this to happen so tell him to respect your feelings or your through!!!

Answer 6

I think you're right. It's not respecting you at all. Besides you know how girls are.....if they are texting that crap, they must be thinking it too.

Give the guy a smack upside the head or get yourself another bf. Makes you wonder what else he's doing, doesn't it?

Answer 7

Are you living with this guy? If so, why? You aren't married nor is he acting like it. The operative term is BF. You really have no agreement to monogamy. Get married or move out.
If you aren't living together, what are you doing in his email?

Answer 8

yeah, you're right. you should sit down and talk with him and tell him how you feel and that you don't like his friends text messaging him those bad ugly things if that dosen't work go to his friends and try talking to them they might understand.

Answer 9

hi!
ive been in that situation and sometimes it causes our fight when i ask why their like that to him. its hard for us because we know its not good and appropriate, just a suggestion talk to his female friends and explain what you feel when they text your boyfriend and dont forget to trust your boyfriend to avoid gap/peer pressure. im sure they would understand you. Godbless!:)

Answer 10

he should know better to tell them not to play with them if they are just playing. the text messages would have to stop. he should know that