Why do some people think it's wrong to date a different race, I date black guys is that wrong?

Answer 1

Some people just don't like others unlike them. It really is sad because I don't believe that there is a problem with it. I mean I like white, black, yellow, red, blue...ect. People are who they are. For me it matters what is on the inside. Having a sexy outside is just a plus......^_^

Answer 2

Are you happy? I think that's the key issue here. Dating different races or another man isn't wrong it's just different. You bleed the same color, you're the same inside but just the outside looks different. I'd like to know how that's any different then dating someone with different color hair or someone that's tan verse ghost white. You know?

People think it's wrong because that's how they were brought up. Funny thing is it really has nothing to do with you so don't take it personally, it just has to do with the ignorance of some people and how they choose to believe.

Just be happy and if your heart tells you it's right then go with your heart. You'll be fine.

Answer 3

Wrong? No. There's nothing inherently wrong with it, although I think it's weird. I cannot imagine being attracted a black women physically or mentally and I really don't know to many people who are attracted to people of other races.

EDIT>>>>>>>>>

WAIT A MINUTE! You're a GUY who dates other guys! Now THAT'S WRONG. You're asking the wrong question.

Answer 4

I'm not going to address the issue about you being a guy dating other guys, but I would like to answer about you dating a different race. I don't think that's wrong, but when it's time to settle down, are you going to have problems with the culture clash? If you have grown up in the neighborhood and live a lifestyle that's similar, then I guess there won't be that many differences. But I know a white guy who married an Hispanic woman. They got divorced, and he never said one bad thing about her, I think he may have even still loved her, but he said the big thing was the culture shock. He had dated her for a long time, went to family dinners with her, celebrated some major holidays with them, hung out with them, and thought that it wasn't much different than dating someone inside his race. The problems came AFTER they were married, and they kind of sound like small things, but I guess after you put up with the same small things for a while, they could become major. For every Thanksgiving they had mexican food. Not our traditional turkey with all the trimmings, but lots of mexican food. And it was like that for all their dinners. Every night for supper, they would eat the kind of food that she had grown up with and knew how to cook. When the kids were born, they had to be her religion. They would celebrate all the mexican holidays, but not a lot of American holidays. I know this may sound like small things, but it was enough to affect his relationship, and he had dated her for years, thought he knew everything there was to know about what he was getting into, but apparently he didn't, or else he changed his mind real fast. Ok, enough of that guy. Now, I think the other reason some people may think it's wrong is because they don't know many people outside of their race, and if you bring your different race friend around, they might be uncomfortable because they don't know how to interact. They are meeting a new person, and I think meeting new people make most of us nervous anyway. And on top of it,here is a new person from a different race, how are they going to percieve me? and a lot of people get nervous by it. They don't want to insult your friend, they don't like to be uncomfortable, and so they might choose to get out of feeling this way by saying "you shouldn't date outside your race." It's not to do YOU a favor by letting you know this, it's so they don't feel uncomfortable themselves.

Answer 5

If lovin' black guys is wrong, I don't wanna be right. Go to iTunes and look for Stephen Lynch's Vanilla Ice Cream song.

"Don't call it jungle fever,
cause that just isn't right.
I am not a racist,
some of my best friends are white"

I've had some nice times dating black guys, because they were nice people, and fun times were had by both (I hope)

I mean, str8 folks main argument usually centers on the kids that will be produced, and that just won't wash, will it?

Answer 6

No it's not wrong...not the black part or the man part. Some people are just very closed minded. It wasn;t that long ago when interacial marriages were illegal in the US (1967 to be exact). It takes along time for ignorance to die out. Just ignore them and do what makes you happy.

Answer 7

Race doesn't matter one bit. Now, I've never been with a black guy before, but I want to experience with one. Or better yet, a group of hard black guys. But, I don't know any black guys who'll let me give them head.

Answer 8

i am a gay puerto rico man here in new york city ,born and raised here in the bronx .as i am sure you all know people from all over the world come here to find themselves. but with that comes all types of ideas of what people are like .sometime we don't have a clear understanding of what others are like so we stay within our own confort zones. never branching out to other groups. i just happen to like all types of guys ,i think its because of where i am from,i am use to seeing all types of races. but if your not use to it your not going to think this is ok. i think its great finding out the differnces in people its fun and interesting. the foods the ways of the cultures ..what a wonderful thing it is to know other races

Answer 9

Because they grew
up dating inside
their race.No,Dating
Black guys Isn't wrong. You're happy,Comfortable
and enjoy life that's
all the matters.

Answer 10

I always said to each there own.If it makes you happy dont worrie about what other people think.Let it go in one ear and out the other.

Answer 11

Some people are simply intolerant of variations of the normal.