My husband and i are married for one year, he is french and living here a little over one year. We have known each other for 4 years and are now separated for a little over 2 months. Adjusting to a new culture and new marriage with kids that arent his has beeen very stressful for both of us, but after separating with no contact for 2 weeks we felt it better to at least try and reunited. its now been 2 months and we are doing very well how much time would you allow?
2006-06-14 03:21:10 · 8 answers · asked by miamya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We are still separated guys. But see each other everyday.
2006-06-14 03:34:52 · update #1
I think the time situation is up to you both however if things are going well maybe start having him stay with you and the kids a couple nights a week and see how that goes
2006-06-14 03:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by mimismom 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
he needs to stand up and be a husband and live with u and work things out together. Married couples should not live apart. Remember your vowles you both said when u got married. If hes not willing to do that then get rid of him.And He new what all he was taking on marring you, the kids, ect, he needs to stand up and be a husband.
2006-06-14 10:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by Piper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said its been two months and you are doing well, i don't see a problem. i think marriage is hardest in the first year or so after that each person is used to the other persons quirks.
marriage takes adjustments and patients.
2006-06-14 10:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by thom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are back together and it is working allow as much time as it takes,, marraige is a commitment, no one said it would always be happy or easy.
2006-06-14 10:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say give it another 2 mths just to make sure this is what u are him want b/c getting into a marriage is easy but getting out is hard
2006-06-14 10:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why time frame it. just enjoy the doing well part. dam dont make problems if there are none.
2006-06-14 10:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go right ahead...u two can make it. best of luck to both of u
2006-06-14 11:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by midas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONTINUE TO MONITOR THE SITUATIONS AND SEE HOW IT PROGRESSES
2006-06-14 10:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋