HELLO! I'm a 20 yrs old girl. is it a problem if I incline so hard to sleep with one of my girlfriends? she's so hot and I can't control myself . I have feelings of sexual about boys too. but I'm sure I'll enjoy more with girls. what do I do?
is that a kind of sin?is that a problem?can I do this? will regret come to me after sleeping with a girl?
how can I forget my feeling about my girlfriend?
2006-06-14 03:15:14 · 14 answers · asked by baldibal 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
No it isn't a sin.
Your feelings are real. In the end, it is your decision whether you want to date boys or girls. If you are in love, or sexually attracted to a person, then go for it. Gender doesn't matter. Your happiness matters.
Do you WANT to forget about your girlfriend? If not, then don't forget about her. I think you should pursue this relationship because you sound sincere. It sounds like you want it. You should make yourself happy. Don't worry about making other's happy. Don't worry about other people's opinions.
2006-06-14 03:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Adam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one!
How can anyone answer that one correctly without first looking at your faith. Biblically speaking, yes ... it is a sin. More and more as society opens up about sexuality, you will see more thoughts of bisexuality come out in the open .... because simply ... its confusing. Do I want to be with her or with him. There will be many out there that would scream to "go for it" (especially men). You will get some women that will say "go ahead - try it" but then again on the flip side ... you might regret that you did it (or you might like it).
Caution is the word here. Does your girlfriend know of you feelings and if she does and you do decide to act on this ... Do you really want that to get out? Some serious mentally challenging thoughts will have to worked out for you on this one.
Be careful!
2006-06-14 03:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by bam2tmss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls,are,especially your age, come to this realization.My daughter(your age)is. And she's not confused, she just is. She's in college, a great job, a million friends..I think I've only realized that girls have jerked her around more than guys have.(no surprise). Women are complex, so be careful. And don't ever regret anything you do in life. It sounds like maybe your not sure though. You don't have to limit yourself to labels. Your not anything, you're you. No one ever got anywhere in life by playing it safe. Be true to yourself, if it fits, wear it.But it's in a human's nature to be attracted to both sexes, that does mean that you want anything more, either. Only you know you. Don't worry about what other people think either, do whatever the hell you want.
2006-06-14 03:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by lilybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a lesbian personally and I myself think bi is being confused... cuz u basically don't know whether you want a man or woman. Woman are the best! especially if your'e one you each know what eachother likes and prefers and u can use toys and other things to make ur sex life better where as u can spend your whole life looking for the right size or right person when u know who u r and what u will like in the same sex. Trust me its worth it! u won't regret it! Just try it and make sure she feels the same way
2006-06-14 10:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by MzJoker60288 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if that what make you happy but you got realize that you can have both because that is a sin it in the bible. You preamble can't forget the feeling about your girlfriend but you need to try and try not see her basely break up and try go straight
2006-06-14 03:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by stardiamond8900 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try both. try the girl first. that will tell you yes or no. but try the guy if you still have those feelings. if you are bi-sexual, find someone who is understanding and perhaps the same way. stay in a small clean group of friends.
2006-06-14 03:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In religion it is an abomination. You can do what you want as long as you enjoy it. You may regret it or not that is according to how your conscience works not all things are bad according to humans.
2006-06-14 03:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you and stop asking some many questions. If you are really that concerned about what you might be then dont do it. Bisexual is just a label. Have fun and be safe!
2006-06-14 03:24:19 · answer #8 · answered by NyNy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if you will regret it but this is a choice that you should make...do you like girls better than you like guys?maybe that's a question that you should ask yourself...I think you like girls better it's ok if you do.
2006-06-14 03:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by Nohemy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
today many people have started experimenting with their sexualityand they come up with what they really need. so i think its not at all a sin. you are the best one to answer your question.
2006-06-14 03:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by thunderstruck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋