2006-06-14 03:09:20 · 13 answers · asked by clh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she is grounded then no you don' t let her go just because she is pestering you.
Don't make grounded go on a long time. It's not fair to ground them for weeks.
Set your rules and make her abide by them but by all means make sure the rules are appropriate and fair.
2006-06-14 03:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. If you grounded her, she is grounded. Don't give in because she is pestering you. If you give in this time, she will continue to pester you until you give in every time. Did you set a date when she would no longer be grounded? if not, set one and give a certain date that she will be able to go out with her friends again.
2006-06-14 10:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by IveGotTheAnswer! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now the main thing depends on what basis was Ur daughter grounded, if it is serious then just hold her back if not then figure out who is her friend,being a daughter myself you really cannot trust friends nowadays,without a knowledge they might throw you in the ditch. So you being her mother should decide your daughter's best
2006-06-14 10:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would automatically say no because you need to stand your ground. When you saay no, you should mean no. But then I don't know you or your daughter or the situation. So I can't really give you a good or right answer.
2006-06-14 10:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by Wanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, or she will never learn what grounded means. She will also learn that if she pesters you she can get what she wants.
2006-06-14 10:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving in will let her walk all over you the next time something like this happens. Hold firm and make her listen to you. It may not be a happy time, but she will learn quickly that when you say something, you mean it.
2006-06-14 10:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by sixspdsxdrv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no without a doubt ther needs to be consistancy in parenting, if not every time shes punished she will bug you to let her off. make her live with consequences, because when shes on her own she will have to deal with them. this is the time you need to teach her this. if you let her off you might as well never punish her. just let her do what she wants.
2006-06-14 10:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by guerisky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! if you let her go, you are telling her not to believe anything you say because you'll not hold to your word. if you can't live with the consequences of the punishment, then next time, don't give the punishment, pick one you can live with, but in order for her to respect your word, you need to stick to it
2006-06-14 10:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by globallylegal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your daughter is grounded, then stick to the punishment. If you cave in on punishment now, she will know that you will eventually always cave in.
2006-06-14 10:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by prettycute4u62040 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on why she's grounded .. if she does go out, jus make sure the friend's parents will be there .. trust me .. im a teen girl, n i kno too many people who sneak out
good luck tho =]
2006-06-14 10:15:52 · answer #10 · answered by x0x0sara0x0x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋