this girl i no she keeps criticizing me and everything i do she makes fun of but wen she is upset i am the only 1 she can talk to is that fair
2006-06-14 02:56:33 · 17 answers · asked by temple_lynne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No that's not fair. It sounds like your "friend" is just using you. She puts you down because she's insecure and has low self esteem and wants to make others feel as low as she does. Nobody else probably puts up with her, so she only has you to turn to when she's upset. Drop her unless she can get a clue about how to be a REAL friend.
2006-06-14 02:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll give u a simple ans for your question.In this diplomatic world there are many who love you and criticize you,but you gotta be strong enough to face it,none are perfect, neither you nor she.I know you feel bad for it and it does hurt but this the world you have to have to face lot more than this .If you are a quick thinker than why don't you tell her something that will just shut her up.Most importantly my dear friend never have the notion that if she behaves with me like that so do i have to also, if you truly believe in god then you should help your enemies when they are in need, you will be rewarded as per your actions, and you may not know how that girl may one day turn out to be your best friend.AS YOU DO SO SHALL YOU REAP
2006-06-14 03:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a friend but a user. A true friend does not criticize, but may give advice to help you. Say you are wearing something totally wrong for you. Instead of criticizing you this friend would say let's go shopping and find a terrific outfit for you.
2006-06-14 03:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by sally_little03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it's fair. I had a toxic relationship just like that. I was more of a human advice column than a friend. It took me not being around her to realize it, but I realize it now and she's out of my life forever.
2006-06-14 03:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not fair for her to do that to u, she's supposed to correct u not criticise and make fun of u, friends are meant to be there for each other, if she cant be there for u and all she can do is criticise and make fun then dont be there for her when she's upset.
2006-06-14 03:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you can talk to her when you are upset, then talk to her when she upsets you. Explain to her how she is making you feel. Perhaps she doesn't realize she is being so cruel. If she is so easy to talk to, then she should understand. If she is your friend, she will change her behavior once she understands how it makes you feel.
2006-06-14 03:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is not your friend. A friend is somebody who "gives & takes" She needs to make you feel good about yourself, and you need to only take her advice if you feel comfortable with it. She sounds very insecure about herself and wants it to rub off on you, trying to make you feel as low as her by making fun of you to make herself feel better about herself. You need to make friends who make you feel good about who you are, so you don't have to pretend to be somebody you are not.
Again, don't listen to her when she criticizes you. She is talking about herself, "not you"
2006-06-14 06:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by LO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendships are founded on mutual respect and caring. If your are being treated in this manner and she expects you to be there for her, it is time to rethink the friendship.
2006-06-14 03:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not fair..she's probably jealous.Stay away from her she will continue to critize you and make you feel like a loser...so just stay away from her...find new friends.
2006-06-14 03:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by mshollywood20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not fair, tell her to be nice or you will not talk to her any more
2006-06-14 03:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋