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I do a lot:
I own a small bussiness, I go to school full time.
I seem to always have a long to do list.
I try, and yet always put things off, do everything the last minute.
I run late alot.
It drives me crazy, and yet I keep doing it.
Any ideas?

2006-06-14 02:16:58 · 13 answers · asked by bagyra 1 in Social Science Psychology

13 answers

this works!
write down a top 10 list of the top 10 things that you have been procrastinating on, but simplify them.
ie. go to dentist becomes make a dentist appointment
wash your car becomes go to car wash
take clothes to cleaners becomes get clothes together to take to cleaners

etc complete the simpliest step the first step in getitng these things done

list 2 might look like

go to dentist apointment on 15th at 2 pm (appointment was made)
take clothes (already ready) to cleaners on way to dentist appointment
while at car wash on way back wash car

list should only be top 10 things that you have been procrastinating on

give yourself a month to complete the list its important that you feel that you have time to get it done (you will see youself get it done in a week anyway)

always simplify list this is the most important

use a big calander at home & write down any dates while planning your list.

look at it every morning & every night

write down anything that you are doing that day on a sheet of paper from your calander & that is your daily to do list . take that paper with you thoughtout the day write down any new plans on the back of the paper & scheldue it to your calander when you get home if something needs to be rescheduled from that day that did not get completed then reschedule it on the calander as well, then my favorate part is to throw that piece of paper away.

don't get a pocket planner if you lose that you lose your whole years worth of planning.

hope this helps

ss

2006-06-14 06:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Starscream 4 · 1 0

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2016-09-09 01:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by kearney 3 · 0 0

This is a cognitive change, which are the hardest in the world. It is possible to stop, but it's a matter of seriously forcing yourself to do so. If you want it bad enough then you can stop. It's a cognitive change, but yet, it needs to be physically changed by you. It's all just a matter of getting up and doing whatever needs to be done.
I will study the art of procrastination at some point in my life once I'm a researcher. I think a pill would be an ideal way to fix this. Ideal but probably not feasible.

2006-06-14 02:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by The!AcademyIs 3 · 0 0

Trust me, I have a problem with this as well. My solution? Figure out which ones on your list are the most important. Write 5 of them down and do the 5 for the day. Keep that up and eventually you can add one each day until you can get them done a little at a time. If you overwhelm yourself, you'll need ulcer medicine.

2006-06-14 02:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

have you tried a schedule? An actual one that is in writing. Make a list of your tasks to complete and start with the small ones, you can get alot of them out of the way, then start with the bigger ones. Break the bigger ones down into smaller sections and tackle tasks that way. Every time you have a few minutes, try to cross something off your list so you can have your evenings to yourself.

2006-06-14 02:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy R 6 · 0 0

i agree w. the first response. definitely make a schedule. make it as big as you need to; make as many as you need to. i used to have really really bad problems w. this. i would procrastinate making the schedule. but just take a piece of paper, write down times you know you will be occupied, including travel time. and make a checklist of all the things you have to get done, trying to give yourself a realistic time amount to do it. it will be hard. and make yourself a check box for later that night that says to make a schedule for the next day so that when you wake up, youll know what you have to do. eventually it becomes a habit to make it, and youll be very proud of yourself, i promise.

2006-06-14 03:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by dmo1505 1 · 0 0

Digg has a few submitted articles on Procrastination that you might want to check out:

http://digg.com/search?search=procrastinating&submit=Submit

2006-06-14 02:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I do this as well. My answer would be to work on self discipline. Set reasonable deadlines for yourself, and stick to them. Good luck!!!

2006-06-14 02:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by Annie's World 4 · 0 0

Stop fighting it. Just go with who you are and let it all sort itself out naturally.

2006-06-14 02:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by sincityq 5 · 0 0

I'll have to think about it and get back with you later.

2006-06-14 02:21:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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