i can't tell them the truth of some things
2006-06-14 02:11:22 · 8 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
welcome to being an adult princess......
it just keeps getting harder
so get used to it........
2006-06-14 02:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by rottentothecore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true that truth hurts, but being betrayed and lied to hurts worse! Especially on top of the hurtful truth! If I were you, I'd be honest with my friends and not keep secrets from them or lie to them or I'd find some friends I could be honest with. You don't have to come straight out and tell your friend they look like a cow in the outfit they asked your opinion on, have some tact and say something like, "It's okay, but I really like this other outfit, why don't you try that one?" There are ways to take the sting out of the truth most of the time. Good luck!
2006-06-14 02:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes keeping secrets and lying to your freinds can lead them to not being your freind, I did that before and it was to cover up my exhusband beating on me. And when the whole truth came out they were hurt and severely pissed at me. So I think that you shouldn't lie to them or have secrets, because they share theirs............
2006-06-14 02:22:38 · answer #3 · answered by R B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and forthright. Part of honesty is being forthright. Only sexual experiences can be kept private. It's how you say it in tonality and the right mix of phrases that makes the difference in breaking the secrets. If it is done right, it will be like oh, that's not bad.
2006-06-14 02:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by scottsorgent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that you don't trust your friends if you can't tell them the truth of somethings. Do they give signs that they aren't trustworthy? You have to learn to trust them but do give yourself time. Good luck!
2006-06-14 02:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by teehee :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't tell it to them or to no-one? if it's something that you need to keep a secret but want to tell them, then there's not much to do. but if it's not a secret but you can't bring yourself to tell them you should probably consider if the friendship is worth it anymore.
2006-06-14 02:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by ilya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you're trying to do is attempt to stay in contact which includes her and attempt to say your sorry and if that would not paintings attempt to communicate about it which includes her if that would not paintings settle for being betrayed by ability of a pal Ive been by this project a lot of time so i go off personal adventure
2016-10-14 03:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well friends don't lie to eachother. .
2006-06-14 02:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋