I have a number but my dilemma is should I confront her or wait until I believe he is with her and then call her number. I've had the feeling for quite a while but of course he has denied it. He has gone off consistently to the area where she lives always saying he was visiting a male friend but then I discovered the phone call made to this particular number in a female's name.
2006-06-14 02:08:24 · 18 answers · asked by doiordon'ti 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
okay the answers are all things i've already thought myself. in any case i can't confront him face to face for at least another nine months because he's away. i can't dump on him right now because of the situation he's in, but it is a piece of info i'm holding onto.
2006-06-18 15:33:42 · update #1
well...i think you should. but, you need to be prepared mentally.. so that, your question will be answered without any chaos happened...well maybe you will freak out, or her or your bf. use the right word and pick the right time...all the best! p/s: i have issues with bf that cheat. hate em' badly...
2006-06-14 02:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason to call her. If someones really loves you, he will come back to you no matter what..
There is no reason to cheat in relationship. If your boyfriend was cheating you, you better let him go and move on. Forgive is to forget. The more you kept the burden inside the more you will feel difficult to open your hearts to someone...There is always a reason for everything that happens to your life...You just need to look for the positive side, be grateful that he is not the person you will have to spend for the rest of your life.
God will make everything possible even if it hurts you so bad. But in turn he will give you the best when you least unexpected...
Building relationship is a matter of compromise. It takes a hardwork to make it better...
Just forget it.. enjoy your life to the fullest.
I hope this helps..
2006-06-14 09:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't confront her. It will only make you look crazy and it's possible she doesn't even know you exist. If you choose to talk to her, do it calmly, you'll get a much better response from her. It's possible she doesn't know "her" man has a girlfriend, either! Even if she does know (not saying it's right) she doesn't have an obligation to you or your feelings. BUT the person you should confront is your man, he's the one invested in the relationship you have and making the choice to hurt you and betray your trust.
2006-06-14 09:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you going to confront the woman. Confront him. He's in a relationship with you. Tell him what you know, give him the number and tell him to call it. The cats out of the bag then. He'll know you know what is going on and you have proof. Dump his azz and be done with it!
2006-06-14 09:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by itsmeee2006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..i would confront him one more time about it, because if you are having doubts then it is probably happening.. but if he denys it this last time, pick up the phone (in front of him) calll the number and ask who she is..I mean if he wasn't cheating on you he wouldn't care if you called the number..right? good luck
but sounds like you can do better than that!
2006-06-14 09:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that the male friend has a female listing because he lives with a female like a roommate, sister, mother, auntie?
Is it possible that he is not cheating?
Do you have more reasons other than the phone number?
Next time he is going, ask him to tag along. That should tell you what is up. heheheee
2006-06-14 09:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Carol P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is tempting, but DON"T call the #. That would just make things crazy...confront the bf and tell him you have the #. If you can't trust this bf why are you with him? If there is any doubt in your mind you need to say goodbye.
2006-06-14 09:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by themom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call or have someone call but it should be a girl, but make sure your number doesn´t show.
and ask who it is... then say sorry I think I have dailed the wrong number , you wanted to speak to then say your boyfriends name.
I am sure she will tell him and let him worry who was on the other end and if you found out or not.
2006-06-14 09:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just leave him and find someone else. I tried it and it ended with disaster anyways. It was a long time ago, but I would advise to you that if he is no longer interested in you and interested in someone else, let him fly free. Find someone else to make you happy. I'm open for friendship and fun.
Scott
2006-06-14 09:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by scottsorgent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes call her
2006-06-14 09:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋