2006-06-14 02:02:51 · 15 answers · asked by Country Chick87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
straight and plain. plain and simple!
2006-06-14 02:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is atrue friend there is no need to be debateing on how to tell her but you have to be careful you might be risking your friendship if she really loves this guy.i once told my friend about how her boyfriend was cheating on her with one of our other friends sister and up to today our friendship has not been the same" that was 8 months ago"
2006-06-14 02:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by cyndyds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your really her best friend you need to tell her.The thing is she might not believe you.When you really like a person it's hard to believe things that you really don't want to be true.You should tell you best friend.I was in the same place a couple of years ago and I told my best friend and she didn't want to believe and so I stopped talking to her and were not friends any more.Just be there for your friend if she doesn't believe you she will notice sooner or later.
2006-06-14 02:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can tell is her honestly and with as much detail as possible. If you know he goes to meet this girl at certain times and places, tell her so she can see for herself. Take a picture of them with your cell phone if you can so she has proof. Be prepared for some mis-aimed fire, though! She may get mad at you for bringing to her attention things she didn't want to know or deal with at this time, but in the future she will thank you for looking out for her.
2006-06-14 02:12:19 · answer #4 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some things are best left unsaid. she will find out on her own and you wont have to jeprodize your relationship with her in trying to tell her. You would be better to tell her boyfriend that you know what he did last summer and if he don't stop then he will be found out by her later.
2006-06-14 03:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by rickdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you can prove that he is, and hopefully it's not you that he is cheating on her with. If your a real friend, then she will listen to you.
2006-06-14 02:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by American___Brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. She may not want to know and if she does know and she doesn't want to leave him, she'll know you think she should and therefore will think you think she's stupid. If she does leave him she may blame you for their break up. Mind your business and let the chips fall where they may (unless you are the one he's cheating on her with).
2006-06-14 02:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two ways that you might handle this.
1.) you can tell her and have her get mad at you, but eventually she will see that you are trying to help. or
2.) you can keep it to yourself and have her get really, really angry with you for not telling her.
2006-06-14 03:51:55 · answer #8 · answered by sixspdsxdrv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, but you do. Give subtle hints around the question to find out if she already knows.
2006-06-14 02:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by jad26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and be real with her. don't beat around the bush be stright up with her.
2006-06-14 03:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by tamar08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her in a gentle way but be real on details
2006-06-14 02:08:45 · answer #11 · answered by savethelastdance_4me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋