I am 16 and I am a virgin! How long will it take me to have sex! Is there something wrong?
2006-06-14 01:56:59 · 38 answers · asked by Courtney Marie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I am 16 in a month and i haven't had sex.I know this isn't the answer that you want to hear, but just listen too me, what's wrong with not having sex?? Do you really want to mess up your life by having sex and getting pregnant?? I wouldn't. My advice to you, wait till your married to have sex. 'Cause the guy that you think you love now, and if you have sex with him and get pregnant, as soon as that happens he will be gone!! Well Good luck on your decision, I hope you chose not to, but that is up to you.
2006-06-14 02:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by 9:07.04.p.m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is your hurry? Be proud of your virginity! Very few 16 year olds can boast this fact. Don't let peer pressure push you into having sex simply because you are a virgin. Sex and making love are 2 very different things. When the time is right, it will happen. If you wait and make love, not just have sex, it will be beautiful! There is nothing wrong with you still being a virgin. In fact, this is something that is very right!
2006-06-14 02:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by momc63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 16 about to be 17 and still a virgin and dont plan on losing it nothing is wrong with u . just have to wait for the right person and make sure u know of the consequences and if u do it u wont regret it.
2006-06-14 06:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are fine, wonderful, excellent!! Do not try to go have sex just to be like others your age. Most find that it is not great to lose their virginity at an early age. You should be proud you are still one. You do not have to worry about getting STD's, pregnant, hurt by someone that you believed loved you, etc. You have so much ahead of you in your life to experience. Driving, prom, graduation, college, a career, lots of other things should be your goals right now not worrying about sex. Get interested into what college you may want to attend after high school think of your future and what you want to do. Then think of what could happen you got pregnant, you may be at a disadvantage of accomplishing those things. Stay a virgin!!!
2006-06-14 02:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 18 and still a virgin, myself. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at our ages. If you rush it, I'm sure you will regret it. My best friend lost hers prom night to a guy she had only dated a few weeks. She regretted it right off the bat. In my experience, more people will respect you being a virgin and not sleeping around. The time will come. Don't worry about it.
2006-06-14 02:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there is nothing wrong with you it is good that you are still a virgin and you shouldn't have sex until you are ready and find the right person don't let any body pressure you into having sex.Be cool about it and proud of yourself for lasting this long sex comes with a lot of responsibilities.
2006-06-14 05:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with you, in fact there is something very right. One thing you know for sure, you do not have any sexually transmitted diseases. Sex just for the sake of doing "it" is empty, boring and nowadays dangerous. Develop yourself physically, emotionally, spiritually and intellectually before you even begin to think about giving yourself to another person in that way. Your virginity is a very special gift, save it for just the right time and person. You won't be sorry,
2006-06-14 02:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by Chegles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16 you SHOULD be a virgin. Why in the world are you in such a hurry to have sex anyway? Do you WANT to get pregnant, contract an STD? What gives?
2006-06-14 01:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're fine
Have sex wehen you're ready too, not because you're the only 1 in your group of friends who hasn' done it. I'm 16 almost 17 and a virgin too, that doesn't bother me..I'd rather not worry about gettin pregnant everytime I have sex..My cuzn is 17 and she's 3 months pregnant.
2006-06-14 10:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha , Its really ur decisions if want to be still virgin ....
If u want to have sex , u might go to the place Bar or maybe to the places where theres many guys that also looking for a girl.
Maybe u are in your house all the time .
2006-06-14 02:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋