how can i control the wetness?
2006-06-14 01:16:27 · 21 answers · asked by cutie 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
HE TURNS OFF IN THE MIDDLE OF EVERYTHING AND LEAVES ME HANGING JUST BCUZ HE THINKS I HAD AN EARLY ORGASM CUZ I SPILLED TOO MUCH :(
2006-06-14 02:46:09 · update #1
I agree with Annabannana. Dump him. Most guys will love it.
2006-06-14 01:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by Bloed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you didn't have an orgasm, and that you want him to keep going (if you haven't already told him). Let him know that a woman being really wet is a sign of being really turned on, and wanting more. If he won't listen to you and keep going, then he isn't being fair to you. If you are important enough to him, as soon as you say, "I didn't have an orgasm yet", he should automatically say "oh I'm sorry I stopped" then keep going for you.
Hey can you do me a favor, can you get IM so I can talk to you, because you answered my question of feeling like your loosing your idividuality to a relationship....and I would really like to talk about it with you more, maybe we can help each other. You up for it? Just go to edit info, and except yahoo messenger. Please?
2006-06-23 05:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by Green Tea Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! i'd love it if my partner got soaked, i'd cry in sheer delight if she squirted when she came...even if there were a way to control it (perhaps being a cold ***** might work) even if, please don't go changing...it's beautiful.
Besides, he thinks you had your one orgasm so your done, you beat him to the finish line so he's pissed?! a woman should have more than one...a womans orgasm should be a mans goal before he oops and spills his...LOL
tell him at gun point, keep pounding it untill i flood the bed and faint ;-)
2006-06-23 23:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by m37734 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he can't deal with it to leave.if he really loves you he will get over the wetness.there are other fish in the sea,no pun intended. every person is different and have different turn-ons such is life.and if you worry about the wetness on your bed there are always waterproof mattress covers that don't feel like plastic,when you're done just throw them in the wash for next time.
2006-06-22 09:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by munkymama4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him-he must be pretty stupid for this is a sign that you definitely enjoy what he does to you. But if he can't appreciate it then he doesn't deserve you. As you can see by the male responses here-that is something normal and enjoyable for the guys.
2006-06-14 02:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gay! Maybe if u devote urself to not enjoying sex ever again, the wetness will go away. Does that work 4 u?
2006-06-14 09:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by Julie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it too, but my b/f loves it. I don't, as I have to change the bedding the next day. I put a black bag on the bed, put a towel over it and viola, my bed stays dry!
2006-06-14 01:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jaqs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Most men would love to have a girl get super wet.
Good for you!!!!
Guys would die to have a girl like you.
2006-06-14 01:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by slickkittykattwhopurs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't control your bodies natural response to pleasure,let him know he needs to control his attitude-or you'll find someone who enjoys it.To actually leave you hanging is another issue-where's the respect?
2006-06-22 07:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by lotsalovetanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men would LOVE that !!! There is nothing wrong infact alot of women get help to have that...... I am like you are and my hubby loves it...... If he really loves you, everything about you should turn him on, especially that!!!
2006-06-22 11:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋