when i was 13 yrs old , i got attracted to a guy in my school.He too got attracted towards me. Afterwards i "kept my feelings in control" and he sought another girl for himself. But the girl was not serious about their relashionship and now goes out with another guy (that gal was 1 of my friends). Now when i'm 15 (gonna be 16) have started to like this guy again. I always think of him. He is my 1st and my last uptill now. But he's also a very very good friend of mine. He is a good guy and not intended on any *** things. But he's neva keen in his studies and is the most charming boy around. Recently he has stopped talking to me. I feel sorry the way he's reacting towards me though i did not tell anyone bout this feeling of mine.
Also there are four other guys who think that i like them, but they don't have the courage to tell that to me neither can i say "no" to them. PLZ HELP!!...I DONT WANT ANY FUNNY JOKES..just want simple experienced answers.
2006-06-14 01:07:10 · 5 answers · asked by It's Fun 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
This is the most critical stage of your love life. Your feelings are normal for your age since all what you have are just feelings not facts. You should concentrate on your studies and leave the boys alone or pretend to. The chaff will be separated from the wheat soon, then you will be grateful to God and perhaps for this answer.
2006-06-14 01:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I would say you should just enjoy your teen years, dont worry so much about what guys think and have alot of fun now.. Go out with friends and just do teen things.You have so many years ahead of you for serious things that you should just have fun now.
Most of all have respect for yourself and so others will respect you.
2006-06-14 08:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by patsybfbay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take 2 months and focus your thoughts and energy elsewhere. After that think things through- decided who you like and what you want.
2006-06-14 10:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by melsamjer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have strong feelings for this guy.
I think you should take your chances & just tell him how you feel.
The worst thing that could happen is he will not return your feelings.
Good luck!
2006-06-14 08:15:58 · answer #4 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u cant say it then just use body language or some other type of communication.
2006-06-14 09:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by toast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋