im a girl and im in love with a gay....my age is 13 and this is my first time falling inlove with a gay... i know this is creepy...... i got too much feelings for him...
2006-06-14 01:05:46 · 26 answers · asked by Johan 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If you like him and he likes you, everything is OK. I was about your age when I fell in love for the first time! Maybe do not fall in love too deep because you cannot be sure how much time you can be together!
Good luck!
2006-06-14 01:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by SweetBaby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since he is gay there can be no romance. You are only 13 and will fall in love many more times. Think of the qualities you like in this guy and then you can spot the same qualities in a straight later on.
2006-06-14 10:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by melsamjer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear! you need to forget about him, you are only going to get heart broken and that is NOT a nice feeling - trust me, been there. I know how difficult it can be, gay men are usually very kind and soft and sensitive - everything we need in a straight guy, maybe that is the reason why you thing you are in love with him. Rather just keep friends with him - you two can become close friends, sharing each others thoughts and feelings. And when you are sad, your friend's shoulder will be there! Good luck.
2006-06-14 08:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by Bergvlam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off dear, let me say you should be more focus on your education and your relationship with your parents, before you even start to think about this relationship with a gay. I totally disagree cause you are putting yourself in danger of contracting AIDS and most of all you don't know Love if it hit you over the head. You are just curious ! Not in Love!! Be careful life is to precious to just throw away for a feeling you think you have. Please Think Twice- Be a friend first to yourself...
2006-06-14 08:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by ressie re 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off its not really all that nice to just go right out and call him a "gay". And second off all its not that creepy it happpens. Jutm tell the guy that you have feeling for him and maybe it will all be ok.
2006-06-14 09:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fine. Just realize that if your friend is truly homosexual (and isn't just saying so to get attention or act out) more than likely nothing will come of your relationship.
My best friend is a gay man (I'm a girl) and I love him very much.
Please also realize that most homosexuals don't really appreciate being referred to as "a gay". Just call them "gay" or "homosexuals". Calling him "a gay" is like calling him "a leper"...it's not a disease. lol
2006-06-14 08:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok lets recap ur in luiv with a gay?!?!?!? well first off u need to go t oa hospital and c if u have a pen-is and if u dont then find a straight guy but if u do then go ahead have all the sex u want in the butt and if u do luv this guy then i hope u like being 2nd best to another guy
2006-06-14 12:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by TAYLOR M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to 'fall in love'. You may feel like you are, but it is actually a 'crush'. Anyways, as being gay is a choice, you may be able to convince him to transfer back to being straight.
2006-06-14 08:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by skifaster6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you shure you are in love or you just feel very comfortable with him? Its easy to get things confused.
The thing is, if he is really gay you have no chance of him having sexual feelings for you. he might like you a lot and you might develop a very good friendship, but nothing sexual.
2006-06-14 08:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by Bloed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, you cannot help who you fall in love with......just wait a while, your feelings may change.. Still, you should tell him, but also let him know that you accept his sexuality and still want to be friends. Be true to yourself and your feelings. Though don't make yourself believe he will suddenly become 'straight' for you. Just be happy you have a wonderful friend in him.
2006-06-14 08:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by Girl Goes Back To The Future 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋