am i wronge for pushin my husband away,see the thing is he a cheater and a lier.eg..in the morning he greet me,and because am so upset i respond to him so selfishly,but i can help it.so i let him go to work without soeakin to him and am the same when he get back.am a very lovin person,outgoin and most of all intelligent and beautiful.i know he love comin home to me or wakin up on the side of me inspite of his ways.but i just cant accept that.not cause he greet me and say nice things.that doesnt mean i must still accept this from him.please help me.
2006-06-14 01:05:28 · 5 answers · asked by tigerisexxy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are not wrong for feeling the way you do about his infidelity. However, you can be blamed if you are not letting your feelings known to the person(s) you are blaming for putting you in this position of mistrust, anger, sadness... If you let this go for too long, you'll lose yourself. Let your feelings out and you'll definitely feel better...and it will give you a sense of freedom to make choices about what to do next. Separation can be a good thing when trying to figure it out. Because you are married and even though he is in the wrong, he has a right to know how you feel and what you intend to do about it. If your desire to give him another chance is there but buried with all the anger then focus on the good you two have shared and go back to those magical moments to help you remember why you were together in the first place. No one is perfect, wife or husband, we all have faults. Forgiveness won't be easy but it will give you both freedom whether you stay together or not. I wish you all the best.
2006-06-14 01:59:39 · answer #1 · answered by rggiggles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to stop pushing him away... You will end up making him feel rejected and hurt and ultimatley you will end up losing him and his love because of it. You need counseling and help here and dont ever let him go to work again with out saying a word to him as you never know if he will come home or back to you that night or not. What would you do if God forbid he died or something bad happened to him that day. You would feel awful band ad guilty for not treating him right. Think of it that way. Treat and love him the way you want to be treated. Two wrongs dont make a right and I highly recommend marriage counseling to both of you here!
2006-06-14 11:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live separate lives
2006-06-14 08:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should get even with him and let him catch u in bed with another guy
2006-06-14 08:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm u need relationship tips
2006-06-14 08:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋