should i send my wife a piture text of me and my lover so she gets the hint?

Question

been marride 13 years bored of her

Answer 1

YOu are just a wimp, you dont you tell her straight out, try and be a man for once

Answer 2

Only if you want her to do the same for you. Imagine how you would feel if she sent something like that to you. The "golden rule" still has a place in the world. I've been married for almost 12 years and it is not easy to stay interested after you've learned everything there is to know about your partner, but believe me after that long together there are some things that change and if you start communicating a little you might learn a lot of brand new things about her and you won't need a lover anymore.

Ask yourself what it is that you are getting from you lover...aside from the obvious and then be straight with your wife about the needs that are being met with that relationship. If she values the relationship at all she will meet you half way, ESPECIALLY if you have kids together.

Answer 3

That would be the wrong way to give her a 'hint'. Why not just come right out and tell her. If you are willing to send her a picture of you and your lover, why not just have sex in your marital bed and let her find you?
It's disrespectful to your wife to send her such a graphic image and be coward enough not to have talked to her about the fact that you are 'bored.' Have you even tried to re-ignite the spark in your relationship, or are you the lazy type who thinks he's God's gift and thinks he is the one in the right.
I truly feel for your wife, and for their sakes, I truly hope you don't have children. How awful would it be that their father sends graphic messages of himself and his mistress to his wife.
You need to sit down with her and be honest. You're not a real man if you can't sit with her face to face and let her know you are having sex with another woman.
I also hope that this other woman is cheating on you also, and that your wife kicks you out of your home and you have nowhere to go. If she cites adultery when you divorce, the law has changed and it means that she could take a lot of money from you.
I really hope she does.

Answer 4

Have some respect for you wife you are married thirteen years and you are cheating on her + you want to tell her by sending her a picture text, grow a set of balls and be honest with her sit down and talk to her about it. If you have children with her you are spineless cause this will cause them so much pain as well.

I dont know why i am answering this question cause i really do think it is someone taking the piss and looking for a reaction of people

Are you making up this question cause someone living in the real world wouldn't have to ask it.

And if you are honestly asking this question please join the real world or do your wife a favour and grow up.

PS Your wife really doesn't need you & you give decent men a bad name!!!!!!

Answer 5

I agree with everyone else you are a coward. You must know to do that would be wrong. Its really hurtful and disrespectful to your wife and your kids if you have any how could you do that to them.
Like everyone else said grow a spine and sit her down and tell her. I think she would be better off without a jerk like you anyway. Maybe with you out of her life she could find some really happiness. If you where my husband I would let the mistress have you your not worth the trouble

Paul

Answer 6

If you want to prove to her that you are the most heartless, ignorant ,self absorbed, egotistical lowlife that ever lived go ahead. She'd be better off without you. Oh and by the way book yourself in for some therapy because you are one screwed up bloke. What happened to doing it face to face in a way that would leave your wife with a bit if dignity? Or did they not teach you that in amoeba school?

Answer 7

You sad sad man! I hope your lover leaves you too. You are no man if this is how you treat a women. You have known her for 13 years! Instead of getting a lover, get some lessons in spelling!

Answer 8

Well that would be a little crude, but if you did, it certainly would shed some light on the situation. Or, if there are no children involved then just cut off all ties with her. Just have to keep in touch with her if there are children. Just let her know verbally along with the picture.

Answer 9

during these past 13 years she hasnt been bored ...dont worry you can thank me later. i think when she sees your lover she will feel more confident in her own body and will finally have the excuse to help you bag your bags. i hope while reading this you would of wasted as much time as i have reading your posts. get a life as long as its not a happy one cheerio

Answer 10

no that would be rude,and by the way she will have enough evidence to take u to the cleaners.why not try make things work.maybe you are bore or just plain old selfish,when you have a woman who love you and stood by you for years ,notthing dont suppose to get between that,so try again.and if the lady you with is respectable she wont be srewin around with you.remember wat u did to your wife gone come back to u.think about it,she see u while u was with your wife right,then she see anyone while she with you,hello think

Answer 11

Can't you just make sure she catches you both in the act?
I suggest having sex in the elevator of the building where your soon-to-be-ex works, if she does indeed have a job.
Otherwise, just do it in the kitchen on a day you know she is at home.
She might try to explain the picture text away, but I'd like to see her try explain THAT away!