my boyfriend and i been together for almost 3 months now. we don't talk or see that much because of time conflict on work and school. i talked to him last sunday and he said we will be going out this coming weekend and he told me that he's gonna give a call on monday. i waited all day for his cal and didn't receive any. i emailed him telling that i waited for his call and maybe he doesn't remember me anymore. the next day i received an email from him thinking he might be saying sorry for not calling but instead he emailed me because he wants to break up with me. i'm really confused about it because the last time we talked he seems okay but then suddenly he's gonna say he can't be stuffed being in the relationship and he even have time for it.in the first place he's the one who wants to be in a relationship with me and then he's saying he doesn't have time for that?i'm really confused about everything and i don't think that is the very reason why he broke up with me what's going on?
2006-06-13 23:01:40 · 21 answers · asked by jasmine_9903 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ditch him. He's not all that interested in you and you deserve to have someone treat you special. Besides he sounds like he could be married.
2006-06-13 23:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Sue W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My take on this: he already found someone else. It is probably because your free times do not overlap much and he has been doing a little something on the side. Play it off like you just don't care. I know that it hurts to get rejected, and this is a pretty childish way to treat someone. An email break-up really is pretty low and you deserve to be treated better than that. Try not to let this guy get you all bent out of shape. Don't sit at home eating ice cream over someone that does not deserve your love.
2006-06-14 06:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this guy doesn't sound very nice, he obviously doesn't care abou your feelings. I've had a guy do that to me, everything was ok, we talked and were going to go out on the weekend but then he broke it off. I don't know why guys do that. But maybe you can try an email him and explain how you feel and that you thought everything was going ok. If that doesn't work you have to try and do something else positive in your life like start a new hobby or go out with a friend to try to get over him.
2006-06-14 06:06:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he propley has alot of stuff going on at the moment so doesnt know if he is coming or going. If i were you i'd just give him alittle space and let him decide what he wants. i agree its not a very good reason to break up with someone but its what he used... Its not worth getting upset over him if at the end of the day he may not want you back or you may not what him back... Just start going back out with your mates and forget about him... let him get in contact with you first. And if he doesnt he's not worth it...
2006-06-14 06:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by gotta_be_gnome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im thinking there may be some other person in the mix or he is just too imature to settle with you at this time. Dont cry about it move on with your life and if he really loves you he will make the first move to see you. If he moves really fast it is just about sex be aware.
2006-06-14 06:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by lildad7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this..but it sounds like it's over. I know it hurts..and your confused. The absolute best thing you can do is move on and not call him, or drive by his place, or email him. Just count your blessings and find someone who won't dump you via email.
2006-06-14 06:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by Toolooroo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
impersonal communication is bad...leads you nowhere and most of the time it leads to misunderstanding.
who knows how he interpreted your e-mail...
maybe it has nothing to do with it, and he's just having some personal problems.
in any case- you should SPEAK to him face to face-
not via email, phone whatever...
show him that you care, and ask him what the problem is.
maybe you can both work on it and save the relationship.
in any case, you won't be confused anymore:)
good luck
2006-06-14 06:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he didn't call because he is seeing somebody else. the email you sent him was like an invitation to break up. i don't know why you would want to be with him if you only see him once a week
2006-06-14 06:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by jazzmen4u28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's it and that's life...the relationship is over. There's no sense of you in getting confused as it would only mean that you are analyzing it much. It's just that plain and simple, he doesn't love you that much and only you has bothered thinking.
2006-06-14 06:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by crystals 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to think WHY WHY cause it won't help you win him back.. he's just not the one for you ok .. so the sooner you get over him the better you will be sweetie,, enjoy some time with your friends and family to help u get over him and in no time at all you will be snuggling up with a new bf :)
2006-06-14 06:06:23 · answer #10 · answered by springo88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋